Ashchyck
Ashchyck
Ashchyck

I don't agree with being mean to people, bullying, or fear-mongering. I'm a naturally slender person and have been my entire life, so I'm not going to pretend to know what it feels like to be in a "fat" person's position. I have never commented on anyone's weight or offered dieting / fitness advice unless asked.

Haha I actually went and looked - apparently one of her kids hacked her as a prank.

There's a way to offer criticism and be genuine about it without coming across as insanely hostile. Her behavior towards him has been over the top in my opinion to the level of being inappropriate.

edited for accidental rogue commenting.

This makes me so happy. I didn't get any Girl Scout Cookies this year at all.

How is that a rogue comment? That's exactly what happened and why it was brought up.

One of the contestants sang it last night on "The Voice" and Christina Aguilera basically said to him that he had a great voice but didn't like the song choice because it was derogatory to women.

All I could think when I looked at that dress was that it looked like a Mrs. Claus costume.

I was thinking the same exact thing

I hate those guys and find them obnoxious. As a woman, it certainly doesn't make me think they are more manly. It makes me think they were raised in a barn. If I'm ever sitting next to someone like that, I simply ask them to move their legs. I have never had anyone once say No. I think if they did I'd "accidentally"

It's not a matter of being uncomfortable - it's rude. I paid for my seat, an allotted amount of space. I would like to be able to sit in it and have the exclusive use of it without having someone else touch me, or force me into half of it.

If you click on the article, it says that it didn't take place at a salon but in her stylist's home and that she is friends with the stylist. Not that it makes throwing a temper tantrum any better, but I think it's easier to get actually angry at the people you're generally close to in life. Most people would feel

I read this story somewhere else first - it took place at a friend's house at like 10 pm, the hairdresser is a friend of hers. So I'd assume the other people there were friends / family / assistants as well. Which makes more sense - I know a lot of people that start crying if a close friend is crying.

Sigh. The laws of physics. So inconvenient.

why can't they just invent something that allows you to get a shampoo at a salon without leaning your head all the way back into a sink? as someone who has neck / upper back problems it's actually painful to sit there and i count the seconds before my stylist is done.

I think there's something wrong with everyone. There are definitely a few things that are wrong with me, and I'm okay with that. I think the key to finding a good relationship (if that what you're interested in), is finding someone else that is okay with the things that are wrong with you too. And you should be okay

You need to identify what the problem is before you know which action will correct it. And you might want to consider putting more time into working on those social skills, considering the response you've received.

Yeah, you completely missed my point about your attitude being the problem. The fact that they start to disappear after you get to know her better should probably enourage you to do a little self-reflection.

Maybe it's this type of attitude that turns women off. At your level? Could be one of those guys that never gets laid? When I first read "good looking, successful, normal male" with experiences of dozens of long term relationships my first thought was - oh, well he must be boring. But actually you *kinda* sound like

I can't think of a better way to describe "The Game" than - The Angry Nerd's Guide to Revenge Fucking Younger Versions of the Girls Who Made Fun of You in High School .