An armed white guy.

Guess he meant the kind of little lost boy capable of repeatedly overpowering and injuring a grown woman. You know, that kind!

More like petulant, narcissistic man-child (at best). I swear, he wears all those ratty scarves and a hundred necklaces and rings and gross hats to detract from the fact that he’s a middle aged man. But we know.

Reading those texts makes me sad. If they are actual texts and not faked, they show he was abusive to her for a long time and people were pushing her to stay with him. It sounds like he was either drunk or on drugs when he did abuse her.

“A little lost boy”?!?

That has been the fucking theme of the month. Don’t talk about all the violence men commit against women! It might upset the men who don’t do those things. And you want them on your side, right? /barf

yes it is far too early to speculate why this privileged wealthy white man might have barricaded himself inside with a body he mutilated

let’s just allow him to be peacefully white and wealthy for a few moments longer before speculating

just a few moments

I was hoping we'd get through a day without needing to say that. *resets the sign back to zero...from the zero it was on already*

Totally aside from custody, many men get violent because the mother’s time and attention is taken up with the baby, and they resent the loss of time and attention for themselves. I actually think that’s more common than custody-related abuse.

The comment in my head while reading this story was along the lines of “Damn, we don’t even need to type out that quote anymore.”

That poor woman and her precious baby :(

The Quote.

The quote that is always the first thought after tragedies like these. The one that always brings out trolls that insist we consider their poor feelings, and how much more important they are than our lives.

I love the “unfortunate tragedy” bit. Torturing, mutilating and murdering the mother of your child — it’s just like a hurricane or a plane crash! These things happen, and it’s just unseemly to blame anyone!

“Men are afraid women will laugh at them. Women are afraid men will kill them.” It was time for today’s quote. Unfortunately we get to use this daily - sometimes more than once.

Yes, my husband’s mild emotional abuse became extreme after we had our child and I suffered horrible postpartum depression. He would claim to be doing everything “right” and get angry when I didn’t start getting better immediately. I became a symbol to him of his failure and he hated me for that.

Also this may have been a clue to his violent tendencies:

Yeah, NO: Of his client’s relationship with relationship with Kasian, Richards adds, “It’s very rare that someone is involved in a homicide case with someone they just had a baby with. It’s very early to make a conclusion as to what the cause, intent, motive and facts were to this unfortunate tragedy.”

“It’s very rare that someone is involved in a homicide case with someone they just had a baby with. It’s very early to make a conclusion as to what the cause, intent, motive and facts were to this unfortunate tragedy.”

This guy’s lawyer says: “It’s very rare that someone is involved in a homicide case with someone they just had a baby with.”

Mayhem is the common law name for the crime of mutilating, crippling, cutting off, or otherwise permanently disfiguring part of a person’s body.

Says his divorce attorney Ronald Richards, “Him being violent is so uncharacteristic of the person I’ve known for many years.”The classic line of all friends, acquaintances and family of abusive people. FFS will someone just accept that you don’t know what is going on behind closed doors and that someone you may like…