That you equate being a bottom with "wearing the pants," being more aggressive, or taking the wheel more often in a relationship is inherently stereotypical against gay men. I'm gay, I like to bottom, and I could see myself in a happy relationship in that role. I'm also a control freak and, given my education level,…

"it turns out that he's a bottom."

As someone who, as a teenager, was a victim of incest, rape, and molestation for approximately two years, I find the level of celebration and apathy for another human being — even an accused rapist — in these comments really disturbing.

No but I know some brick walls that are.

First of all......what?