This. Without proof, all we have are the type of breathless rumors best consigned to middle school. And that's what it feels like right now.

I love that photo. I would do absolutely disgusting things to him, and then when Old Ugly Stalin friended me on Facebook years later I would add him back because we had a great night, but then hide him from my feed.

Sorry, I just read that Lyft stalker story and now I should clarify that I am a woman, and I identify with you, and if we lived in the same city I would invite you out for drinks with my friends.

I like you.

I complain extensively about the negative elsewhere in this thread so I'll spare you and focus on the positive. Re: hanging out with grad students as an Old - that's true. I have met some wonderful, fascinating, brilliant people who I would never have found otherwise, and who are doing amazing things and who are…

The weird thing is, at least from my perspective, that it doesn't really have to be that way. I do research, I write papers, I present them, etc., but I also work, and go out with my friends, and travel, and have plenty of time. I think that either I am missing something terribly important and there will be a…

To provide a different viewpoint: I'm female, and about ten years older than my grad student counterparts overall because I've been off, ya know, having a career and whatnot, and legitimately put myself through college, which seems to be a rarity if you're a grad student in my department (Latin American Studies, UC…

omfg I'm a humanities grad student. THEY. ARE. THE. WORST. One guy actually mansplained "the patriarchy" to me. I just looked at him waiting for the punchline before realizing that he was the punchline.

Pardon. A five-word comment. Even better.

It's not overly pedantic if you're condemning twenty breeds because they look a certain way. Of course, I'm sure that tendency doesn't bleed over into the rest of your life, right? Oh, except that you called me an "overly pedantic asshole" from a six-word comment. You're a snob and an ignoramus and I wouldn't want…

This is fascinating because I understand and respect that dynamic but am always smiling unintentionally. I suspect that I really do look like a potential axe murderer who is just delighted at the prospect of following you home, because nobody ever bothers me in NYC.

Pit bull isn't a breed.

So, in case you're wondering why you're a fucking creep, here you go. You put up a comment in a post about "yellow fever" and how it's sublimated racism about how you, personally, prefer Asian women because they have tighter vaginas, which nobody asked for nor wanted to know, and then you repeat it again and again…

Don't talk to me, you fucking creep.

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Everything you say makes my skin crawl even more. You're creepy as fuck.

Oh sorry I wasn't helpful. I like Freya, Felina, some DKNY bras (although they fall apart rapidly) and Ewa Michalak.

It sounds like we have the same boobs! And - Renaissance Breasts. I have never heard that and LOVE it.

And the always wonderful Ewa Michalak! I can't recommend them enough.