You’ve completely missed my point. I’m sure both were irresponsible (the man and the woman) but the biological fact is that the woman has to suffer the consequences for the irresponsibility. The man can’t get pregnant. We can yell at them all we want but their attitude may have been, “What do I care?” (which is…

“I was a parent of two and involved with the father of my children, but we weren’t in a relationship or anything.”