And the thing is about those girls — they're not always big in the bust. They always have natural breasts and they're always sexy, but they're not always big. And the flesh that makes up the hips and waists is soooo sexy. I can't for the life of me figure out why the media has decided that men prefer no moving parts…

I love T&A films. Those girls in early Bond films? Those curves? Oh Jesus. I can be a misogynist for a day as good as anybody.

I, personally, would ask Mr. Bananas about the guy and suggest that he bring that nonsense to his friend's attention.

Valley of the Dolls. And Beyond the Valley of the Dolls.

Is your concern the age issue (that he wants women a decade younger but only 4 years older) or does he lie about being divorced and traveling all the time?

My father's day is HATE CHINA DAY. The Chinese govt cremated my dad's body before telling us he'd died, so we never knew how or why. But I have an extra shot in his memory, and think about chess and sex (his two favorite things).

Oh, I'm happy for you. And envious. That's the night I want tonight but I have a sinking feeling that mine won't be so bright.

I don't know if Teen is around, but I'm glad they had that story.

So sorry. These people are fucking sadists.

I'm sorry you're dealing with that. EDs are horribly difficult to overcome, partly because, when they get bad, they destroy our ability to think. The effect on cognitive function is startling — I only started to recover when I was able to remember what my pre-ED mind was like. I wish you the best and please feel free…

I actually think it's funny. Pink and purple — for GIRLS! I kept it as a souvenir.

Ugh. One time I left Planned Parenthood to have a cigarette (in between the counseling and the procedure) and I was crying, sobbing. It wasn't about the goddamn abortion, it was about something else in my life (the recorded-on-Jez jackassery of my inseminator). And these sign-holding women rushed up with "it's ok…

I hate — HATE — the way female ED recovery narratives are played in the media. It's a feel good story exactly when the little woman is hot again. The story's no good if recovery means being 50 lbs heavier than the weight at which you look "perfect" (unless they're going for the "I'm real!"/"Real women have curves!"…

That's so ridiculous I laughed out loud. I think someone needs to start a campaign about the dangers of pregnancy and childbirth. It would be extremely funny to see the reactions if a law was proposed that would make it illegal to not discuss abortion with women who are certain they want to have a child, where they…

For anyone who's had to deal with protesters outside abortion clinics, did they give you crosses and rosaries? Mine were purple and pink plastic — FUCKING PURPLE AND PINK FOR GIRLS — and it just brought home the idiocy and lack of dignity of these people.

Do you remember any of the medical misinformation? I was lucky (my abortions were in California and Massachusetts) and the only bullshit I had to deal with were the protesters. I'm curious about what kind of nonsense you got told.

Agreed. But they can get back to me never. Even if the embryo/fetus could be safely removed from a woman's body, brought to term in an incubator, and guaranteed a perfect life full of beaches and dogs and loving parents, they would STILL not have the right to tell me that I can't have an abortion. Why? Because the…

They do screen for coercion (at least in my experience — 1 abortion at a hospital in CA, two at PP in MA). They just talk to you for a little while, without ever being patronizing or suggesting that you don't know your own mind. They ask if the inseminator is in the picture, and how you feel, and if you're interested…

This article discusses the hypocrisy of the coercion aspect:

This bill is not just sadistic towards women. It's sadistic towards some babies.