Interesting — so that's the rationale you use even if you happen to make the same or more than the individual man who's asking you out? Should I give charity to Black co-workers or expect charity from White co-workers because on average the race they belong to makes less and more money respectively? Just admit that…

Many women I happen to know who self-identify as feminists still think the man should pay for dinner. I never asked their rationale because I don't really care — personally, as a women, I always offer to split and often insist on doing so, but think it's awfully sweet if he at least offers to pay the whole bill.

Wow, you know some awful human beings. Sucks to be you man.

Ugh. There's some crazy people out there. One of my guyfriend's ex-girlfriend stalked him for months, and eventually threatened to kill herself if he didn't get back together with her.

He/she is allowed to be a hypocrite — he/she might spread his/her legs on a first or second date but then not want to date the person initiating the sex that they presumably enjoyed.

Where are you meeting these men? Choose a safe and public place to meet them, don't give them your information, and generally take extremely common sense safety precautions.

Of course I'm not scared — I choose to meet my dates in very public places. Why would I be scared of my date, any more than I'm afraid of anyone else at the cafe that I usually meet my first dates in?

I'm a woman and I have a terrible fear of men being (what I consider to be) ugly and/or fat when their profile picture indicates otherwise. I agree with this guy, although I certainly won't comment on what other people find attractive, I'll say that I'll feel tricked and irritated if a man looks very different (for…

What? I'm a woman and I have a terrible fear of men being (what I consider to be) ugly and/or fat when their profile picture indicates otherwise. I agree with this guy, although I certainly won't comment on what other people find attractive, I'll say that I'll feel tricked and irritated if a man looks very different…

...that sounds so hot.

THIS.

Except it's apparently also not for people of minority groups to decide what's offensive. Not every person in the minority group will agree — just as some Native Americans will think that this writer is talking out their ass. Nobody's opinion overwrites someone elses.

Ugh, disgusting. Everyone should do what they want when they're cosplaying, but it doesn't mean I can completely suppress my urge to vomit when a disgusting hambeast lets it all hang out.