You just know he claims men who get drunk and punch people (women they're involved with, other drunk dudes, random bystanders, whoever) have lost all control of themselves due to the alcohol. It seems like it's always the people who claim men under the influence lose all control who claim women under the influence…

Weird. In the twisted logic of the ancient Hebrews, it was enough to 'punish' a guy by forcing him to marry his victim because he had 'spoiled' her. The wishes of the victim were of no import.

mutha f ... I have NEVER spoken about what happened to me in a small Midwestern college when I was visiting my sister. Suffice it to say I was 16, fiercely independent.... Ugh I struggle. On to the point - this guy! You can not have a position influencing young adults and be this vocal trying to slut shame someone…

Yes, let's all return to Christian values to deal with rape. From Deuteronomy 22:

Also, someone who is employed by a college but can't use the right 'you're.' Yeah yeah, he's a sports coach, whatever. It's a college. Everybody on staff should be able to pass a 4th grade English test.

Here.. This may help...

Disclaimer: Maybe the kid isn't a rapist, I haven't been following the case and I don't have all the information and false rape accusations aren't nearly as common as justified rape accusations but they do happen and we should learn all the facts and gather all the evidence before condemning anyone.

Everyone knows that women only go to parties to drink and have sex with some promising, young dude bro so they can claim they were raped the next day and earn some of that sweet, sweet rape money.

I have been a long time lurker of Jezebel. This story had me so flabbergasted, I create an account today, just to be able to say:

Yes, I am trying to figure out why anyone would be "held accountable" for going to a party, or for choosing to engage in consensual sexual activities. Neither of those are things people should be "held accountable" for. Rape is a crime, and people who rape should be held accountable for committing a crime.

"Your likely another woman who wants to be able to go party and have zero accountability"

I can't even. I am now unable to even.

It's Darcy's first name (his mother's maiden name). And that cat is not a Persian, it's a Norwegian Forest Cat. And it looks nothing like Colin Firth. Just so much wrong with that lady's information.

i havent. and i don't like austen or either bronte. i also don't like emily dickenson much either.

I haven't either. I was supposed to in school and lied and said I did, but I never have made it past the first chapter. I have read the one with zombies and I've seen all the movies tho.

How else are they going to get "un-ugly?"

Yeah, no one who's "honest" and "tells it like it is" has ever said "Maureen, your hair looks great today. I'm just telling it like it is", or "Sweetie, you know I'm just being honest with you, you've been doing really well at your job, I'm super impressed with your progress". So either you're really honest, and…

I love the saying, "those who love brutal honesty are more interested in the brutality than thr honesty".

People who are "honest" and "tell it like it is" are really just assholes.

Respectit.