I definitely think there are commonalities between men and women who’ve been sexually assaulted. For example, I’ve seen women victims describe how they “froze” when being assaulted, and weren’t even able to say that they didn’t want what was being done to them. I completely understand that physical response, because I…

I think the argument you give (that men should be more responsible for bad blackout sex decisions) is already internalised and believed by at least some people. My first sexual experience was when I was 19. I went to a big party where a very drunk woman, in her early 20's I guess, latched on to me, flirting…