It's not confusing. If straight men love porn this doesn't imply they care about or respect women. Men don't "go nuts over lesbian relationships or subtext" unless it's specifically catered to the male gaze. This isn't like fangirls with gay guys, straight men don't care about subtext (I don't know where you get this…

We can never have any f/f romantic relationship without someone dropping in and claiming it's only there for the straight male audience, reducing it to nothing but an add-on to the show to attract men, pretending gay women don't exist and that men like seeing characters resembling real women fall for each other as…