i don't care i love it!

Sorry, but she sounds great.

I had sex with a guy who said he couldn't wear standard condoms, but he also special-ordered a different size online and never wanted to have sex without a condom, so I was inclined to believe him.

What's wrong with looking at social trends and analysing them? Asking questions about the world is a good thing. There's a difference between questioning a specific individual's choice and trying to understand what drives societal patterns.

By now, you're a frequent poster here, too, so... Way to go.

Yeah, when I hear guys say "I like girls who don't wear a lot of makeup!", I usually assume that they mean "I like girls who wear well-blended foundation, concealer, bronzer and powder, along with well-applied eyeliner and mascara."

A lot of men have no idea how much makeup it takes to look like you're wearing no makeup.

Plus, covering doesn't actually stop anyone from sexualizing women.

I guess I get to use this one twice today, too!

I'm sorry. Did I invite you to my doctor's appointments? No? Then why are you asking "after my health" when all you want to do is make me feel ashamed for being what I am?

I already told you: I don't accept the premise of your question. You assume I cannot be fat and happy. I disagree.

That buys into the false idea that I can't have self-esteem and be fat. I don't accept the premise of your questions.

Charles Manson was also born to a teenage (16) mother. I guess it's unfortunate we didn't learn from that example.

Only if she's saying what he wants her to be saying ...

(from the joke files of my 12 year old cousin...)

Wait — doesn't that make Wendy the ideal person to talk about abortion rights?

But, like, didn't you KNOW that if you just eat "right" and exercise, that you'll be a size 0. And also that my right to express opinions about your body is like waaaaaay more important than your ability to feel good about yourself? If we're nice to fatties it just encourages them!

I'd rather see a gladiator-style contest in which women battle the patriarchy using logic and steel-toed boots.

I'm sure it changes based on how hard we need to scold women today.

It's not real love unless it is declared with a neck tattoo, Erin. I'm so glad you understand that. Too many do not.