What you and several other kneejerk types fail to recognize is that being surprised by something unfamiliar is different from calling it wrong.

I don’t! As a theater person married to a stage combat choreographer-the kids shouldn’t have been out of control with any stage violence. Or “feeling it” so much that they were out of control in general. It’s dangerous. And it should have been drilled and practiced to be slow and safe. Accidents happen but the…