Guys who are not afraid to be bald or short. I find it a huge turnoff when guys are obsessed about being short, I know it is a fairly universal point of discrimination for men, and I understand being resentful of this. But when I see a shorter guy give no fucks, and walk around like he is 6'5'' it is pretty fucking…

Because you never doubt that Beyonce is a person of power, who makes her own choices. Miley is manufactured to a great extent, and one always gets the impression that she is managed, and not by herself. She is a result of a machine. Beyonce is the machine.

Did he press charges?

I grew up in San Francisco, next to/in the the Castro. The overwhelming impression of "we don't want you there" to women (and in particular lesbians) always kind of upset me. The message was "this is not for you" and I was like, but this is my home? I feel like the gay male presence that transforms real estate in…

Probably the best written thing I have ever read on Jezebel. Leaps and bounds above the usual fray in terms of thoughtfulness and articulation. I hope this writer gets featured more often.

The same reason people like you. They just do.

I would make it clear you are not into voyeurism, and don't want to be a viewer to her sex life. (Politely of course). If she gets deeply offended or does not listen, dump her.

You really can't control people's actions, even if you wish you could make things better for them, sometimes part of growing up is making big mistakes. It sounds like your sister is well aware of what your family thinks about this regression back into childhood, and that is why she is avoiding everybody.

Agreed. I am not sure why a person would get off on manipulating the people around them to feel bad, but I am pretty sure they are not friend material.

It sounds like person #1 has been clear that he does not want to hear the sex stories. There is something weirdly passive-agressive going on if she is still doing them.

Video taping a person masturbating than shaming them about it is the worst thing I can think of. It is not a shameful act. Fuck this television show.

Wow, this fat short haired woman never wants to make friends with anyone again. Friendship is pointless and just a vehicle for men to try to manipulate women into having sex. I hate humanity.

I think interpreting it as him closeted, and his insane focus on Andie a way of not dealing with that sounds very accurate. That said, I always thought Blane was a tool.

I object to the phrase "friend zoned" in reference to Ron and Hermione. They were actual friends. Then she asked him out, and he dated someone else. Eventually they got together after everything (stupid f-ing epilogue). But they were always real friends, which is already an important relationship.

This is already kind of gross. But the amount they want to pay is even grosser. $250!?

Fuck the world. And fuck rapists and Detective Ryan Simmons in particular.

The strangest thing to me about people who believe in God, is that they seem to also think God is a huge dick.

What happens when you hire a pro and don't get off in bed? I suppose technically you are paying for his time-and would have to pay anyway. There is really no way to do a return.

It is hard to say without knowing more. I think the thing about the cutting would have taken her down regardless. Cutting to make someone conscious, then continuing to relieve stress is pretty psychotic. But that does not mean the actual death was murder.

Underage and mentally ill incapacitates free will to an extent. The details show a larger framework with real complexities that have to be taken into account. There is no doubt that this girl killed this man. However evidence seems to suggest it was accidental, as it was part of their sex life.