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Jason Momoa apologized and made a documentary about rape. He apologized again. We can continue to flagellate him when he actually made progress/amends or we can actually bring the spotlight back onto a serious predator with current conversation we are all having. I suggest this dude:

Um? he did apologize...six years ago when the joke was made and seemed to have learned from it.

Unless I’m mistaken, didn’t he already apologize years ago, soon after he made the joke? And educated himself on why it was a dumb joke to make?

Not to defend what he said, but in the subsequent 6 years he has apologized for the comment (and once again today) and educated himself on the subject as well as directed, write, and star in Road to Paloma about the subject of rape in Native American communities.

I don’t know...after 3 years, if I were unhappy, I don’t think I’d stick around to see if maybe it got better 20 years from now.

I knew two people who were genuine sex addicts. In both cases, their behavior (to get their “fix”) was so reckless and dangerous that it was no different from a drug addiction. And like a drug addiction, their satisfaction decreased as their need for more and more dangerous random sex increased. One ended up going to

Bourdain cavalierly dumped his wife of nearly 30 years for a younger model and now he has “traded up” once again so he might as well shut the fuck up. No need to trash Hillary as a means of impressing his new hot number. He’s a blowhard.

Please, if you are struggling, reach out to someone. There is help out there. Just ask.

I adore Tom Hanks.

Reposting my tale of my almost-murder from last year.

Not scary, but very sweet and probably nothing. 2005 my ex bf dies suddenly of a massive heart attack. He was an eccentric artist who loved to dance on his family’s graves and scatter pennies everywhere. After his funeral, we do the same for him. A few months later, I’m getting ready to take a shower and throw my

This true story happened to me when I was about twenty.

I was working as a security guard after I got out of college because of the crap job market. I was living in the attic apartment of a house that had been turned into one and two-room apartments (with communal bathrooms). I got home at about 1:30 a.m. after my

When I was 12, I was waking home in the cold winter. A car approached me and offered a ride (this was before cell phones). I said no, and the car followed me the whole way home, attempting to get me back in. Finally, I ran into someone’s front porch that was unlocked (because I didn’t want the guy to know where I

The ghost truck was pretty great, too. And the guy who found himself on a date with someone who was giving “I’m gonna murder you” vibes. And the “little girl” in the bathroom.

Let this be the first and only joke of its kind.

Yeah, it seems like Letterman is talking about one thing here (Harvey’s business bullying) and Gwyneth is talking about another (sexual harassment at work), or she’s trying to.

Because it seems that a great many men are under the delusion that everyone else should find their penis delightful and enchanting.

Tsk, tsk. I want all the distraught straight men to know that many of us find penises beautiful to look at. Unfortunately for them, most of us are gay men. But I want them to know, if they’re sick of having their beautiful penises disrespected and laughed at, we’re waiting with open...arms.