The existence of white supremacy and patriarchy are not just conceptual though. They have real history and practically affect lives every day.
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Not what she said at all. Feel what you want, and if you must speak, speak to the guy or a therapist or your family/friends. The boundary she’s drawing is about attempted guilt-tripping and egomania.
“why are we talking about this now?”
Yes, I’m sure it’s appropriate for you to tell LGBTQ how they should feel.
Yes, cheating = AIDS and people with AIDS deserve to be spied on.
Lol wait what about his eyes and glasses??
Can they at least sue Delta for harassment, profiling, etc.?
There was a context to the statement. The argument was about wealth propagation in the black community by marriage and/or progeny. If a rich black guy has kids who benefit from and inherit his wealth the black community is enhanced because that’s more rich black people.
Haha yes even though your disapproval stings really bad, your permission to do me is all I’ve been praying for.
You seem to be conflating the issue of colorism with the issue of interracial dating/marriage. They are pretty distinct to me, with all due respect to your own experience and family history. It is pretty clear that we should do away with the former, I don’t see what is inherently wrong with the latter.
I was speaking from within a very specific context, and yes that’s how black people (men and women) end up dating outside their race. No need to make it up, it’s real life.
I never set out to make successful black men victims. Perhaps in your rush to call me obtuse you completely missed my point.
Passing is part of being Black. The internal struggle to pass as white (with all the guilt or denial attached) and/or be accepted as Black is not a white experience.
Haha great thanks for the non-argument argument. Won’t bother replying to your insults and projections however.
Cool. Glad you could admit the judgment part, keep the rest.
Getting married isn’t just shopping for a beautiful woman. Is he supposed to basically date any pretty woman who’s now “into him” since he’s rich?
You may keep saying disregarding him as woke or “not the wokest” isn’t making a judgment, but it is.
That’s not a short answer, it’s a non sequitur. He’s American, she is, his kids will be. They will also be considered Black for all intents and purposes.
So he’s not entitled to having a peer as a partner?