You do all the cooking, that’s great, but there are so many more chores in a household than cooking and laundry. Ask her sometime, you might be surprised.

One day they were talking about washing sheets and her friend said “yeah, I guess I should. I haven’t changed them in amount six months”.

This is absolutely A Thing. I lived with my sister and her boyfriend (now husband) for a couple of years when we were in our late 20s and early 30s. I saw how they divided labor within their relationship. And yet, when my sister read an article about labor (emotional or otherwise) within relationships, my BIL…

Why do I have the feeling that if we polled the wives and girlfriends of the guys here in the comments chiming in to say how much housework they do, the results would be very different? Before you decide you do everything around the house, remind yourself that a) confirmation bias is a thing, and b) study after study…

It’s called the “principle of least interest.” Whoever cares least in a situation has the most power, because that person can call bullshit and just bow out of the situation. It’s like how whoever cares least in a relationship can just say “what’re you going to do, dump me?” and the one who cares more has to go along…

I feel like the biggest issue is that there are a lot of chores that need doing, but aren’t exactly things that need doing now- for example vacuuming. When it’s one person living alone it’s “I’m going to vacuum when I have the time and determine that the need for vacuuming is sufficiently high”, so it’s largely a test…

This is a completely accurate description of my relationship with my ex husband. 

omg AGAIN bc my ex was the same way

omg my ex was the same

huggggsss In my ex’s thinking, as long as he wasn’t hitting me, he did not do anything wrong. Never mind the screaming all night, keeping me up, Repeating his ramblings over and over. It’s been 7 blissful weeks without him

This, exactly. I’m betting she has at some point in time justified it with “you don’t act/speak/look/seem black.”

She might have cared more about Nicole being rich.

I was in love with a man who was wonderful in so many ways, but would not get help for his mental health. We broke up once, after he did something deeply harmful... we got back together on the condition that he put the work in with therapy. For exactly two years he delayed and dissembled, until I understood that he…

Does Kanye not know he has other children? Or is this NPD style singling out of one child? He only ever seems to drag North into these rants. Is that because she is the golden child or the scapegoat? Weird quibble to have in all of this, I know, but... 

Is Kim going to be her own divorce attorney?

I’ve been saying this for a year - she’s been laying the ground work so that there is maximum sympathy for this decision. 

Are you dumb or do you just play dumb on the Internet?