The word goes hand in hand with a legacy of slavery, beatings, rape, murder, political repression, segregation, lynching, and discrimination, chiefly visited by white Americans (as a group) on black Americans (as a group). (The term is used outside the US as well, which I’ll set aside; suffice it to say that the term…

“Nope, don’t care. Take your sandy vag elsewhere.”

You’re an obtuse moron who clearly wallows in self hate so much that you have to rationalize your bullshit in order to distract yourself from the fact that you’re compensating for something else.

You have several options for other curse words to use, but you choose the N-word. That really says something about your character. One of these days, you’re gonna slip with the N-word in public while surrounded by minorities.

Anyone who casually says “go take your sandy vag” simply CANNOT be a sleazy dude. You don’t come off that way AT ALL with your casual racism and willful ignorance against the history of a word.

What ? You think its perfectly fine for a developer to allow their work to be associated with a racist ? You’re a pretty messed up individual yourself aren’t ya ?

It’s not a universal truth. It’s possible that every man you know is like that but some people think most people take drugs just because all their friends do - they don’t, they just live in a bubble. Another example would be my mother who thinks that all mothers can knit (and refuses to believe that a woman with…

Someone hurt you. I’m sorry, but you can’t go blaming everyone else for it.

“I get it, I thought I was in love many times before, before I realized it was the constant sex and offerings of food that kept me.”

I dug right. I provided examples of how the forms of relationships are culturally determined.

Thank you for shutting this sexist evolutionary psychology bullshit down.

The only parts of programming nature unambiguously encourages is the impulse to get it on and/or have kids. Lots of ways to accomplish that in nature. Human groups have readily adopted monogamous, polygamous, or community relationship structures for sex and/or raising kids, and either with or without the conventions…

I don’t understand LW1. She takes people out on dates (talking and flirting). She cuddles with them. She has sex with them. These are all things that lead to emotional attachments, yet she seems confused that people are getting emotionally attached to her.

Long story short: double-standards and Madonna-Whore syndrome. Guys grow up being taught that they’re horny beasts and should fuck as much as possible, women grow up being taught that they shouldn’t want sex, definitely shouldn’t have it except under very specific circumstances and women who try (or do) have sex like…

That doesn’t add up. They’re ending the sexual relationship by issuing the ultimatum to her.

In my experience, the whole “guys just want sex” thing is overstated. Guys just want sex when they haven’t had it in a long time. Once the sex is regular other desires come to the forefront.

When did we get the idea that falling in love is unmanly?

Somebody on facebook just reminded me of this quote yesterday and I feel it applies well to the second story.

Gender imbalances. Risk of pregnancy. Also I would imagine “confidence” is a bit more clear on gay dating apps, since I imagine that you get to see all the people you are “competing” for and against (you see how your profile stacks up, as opposed to straight-tinder, where you wouldn’t). Catfishing is mostly just scam…

I’ve never understood nor experienced the I want all the intimacy and closeness of a loving relationship but not the commitment. Seems to me like if you can’t commit you can’t really have it all. No judgement here, just my 2 cents.