Chickadees really are little hogs! They’re always the first birds to notice that we’ve refilled our feeder, and are surprisingly aggressive about it, even though they show up in groups. Even if the feeder is full and six perches are available, they seldom will tolerate one another at the feeder, and they grab their…

Came to say this! Especially the part about getting a vasectomy. I have tried many different forms of birth control and they have all done a number on me. My husband acted like a big baby about using condoms when we had a newborn, and even the mini pill shot my BP up high. Before having children we agreed on one, done,…

Honey, Europe is a simmering shithole of racism… (sorry, it’s not my job to make sure your feelings aren’t hurt).

Eh, “artistic genius” has always been an excuse for abuse, from Picasso to, yes, Kubrick. If you can’t make art without being a tortured asshole to your coworkers, then you’re using a crutch that Mr. Rogers didn’t need for his career. I mean, Shelley Duvall didn’t leave the filmmaking industry because of Faerie Tale…

Nice false equivalence you’ve got going there.

I think that specifically saying she doesn’t want to be associated with the name Joss Whedon is pretty significant. Not the harshest condemnation, but who knows what she experienced on that set as one of the people who had to work most closely with him for so long.

“Know" isn't exactly this guy's wheelhouse. 

Its clear that Boreanaz reached out to her almost immediately and has been there for her. Fuck the social media trolls that think if it isn’t on Twitter it never happened. Its all about sharing it with them so that they can feel validated. Human beings are the fucking worst.  I think this planet is working very hard…

On the other hand, performers are performative.  But, it’s tough to gauge when the apology is a form filled out by a publicist or sincere.  If the person aggrieved is the one saying “this person=good” it’s usually the best sign there is.  If the person apologizing says any version of “things that could be seen as…

Well Carpenter explained that one of her reasons for speaking up was her anger at how Fischer was being treated in social media. It’s possible she’s just more social media-aware.

Well, he’s not perfect nor am I saying I idolize the guy or something - I know he kinda famously cheated on his wife. But either way, I’m glad to see this.

Good. I’d been hoping more male cast members would speak up, and especially Boreanaz. He’s always seemed like a generally decent human being.

Damn right. You can bet good money everyone of those nattering nabobs is a sex offender is some way and at the very least, the very least, they have cheated on their wives.

This is how we know they find her sexy and are mad their performance anxiety kept them from shooting game to that Black woman they liked. To think some other white man is getting her drives them to angry distraction.

Agreed, I kind of hate this way of thinking about it. Maybe I’m being sensitive but it bugged me. I don’t let anyone come in my mouth, because I hate it and gag, period. I am not interested in having sex I don’t enjoy.

Perhaps a guest post at some point in the future? Also, there’s a blowjob book written by gay guys that was pretty popular about 10 years ago if you’re interested!

Slow claps for you!

I’d also invite the spitters out there to consider the Golden Rule. How would you feel watching your partner leap up right after you were finished, and try to get rid of your juices as quickly as possible? It would be hard not to feel self-conscious about your genitals, and we all have enough of that already, don’t we?

This woman knows what she’s talking about. Of course, everybody’s preferences differ, but I’d highlight the following:

: also my dating philosophy