I’m sorry.

LOL! Like I said, it’s never been a secret. I can recognize that people can’t see male/female black/white on these forums, so I always try to be upfront about who I am instead of making people guess.

I’m genuinely sorry that you were a victim of rape.

FWIW, I am white and I’ve always been open about that. I do not disagree with Dinasaurs completely, and if I need to be the lamb to slaughter so be it. People have already made up their minds. I clearly am not going to be able to change that.

She wasn’t hostile but I fucking will be.

When the body that you are born with makes you a target for violence, even from the people who claim to love you, you are allowed to be angry about that without automatically being an asshole. Is it defensive to defend one’s self? Is a tautology a tautology?

It’s always disturbing when I see the same lack of objectivity on the left that is so cancerous and endemic to the right. Good luck with that.

Laughter is a helluva lot easier to clean up after than tears?

The problem is that most here are failing to separate the speech from the speaker.

You know Rooo is a woman and you asked why she was so angry?

Poop Nightmares are the thing that bind us all together. We all have our own personal poop nightmares. Poop Nightmares know no borders, no creeds, no religions, no governments. They are the most human thing that we all share.

...just a guy who has serious issues with women daring to disagree with him. He’s pulled similar shit on Jezebel multiple times before.

But I will give you this handy tip: When I have been in your shoes and truly wanted to feel the other person isn’t the jerk I’ve made them out to be, it was a pretty simple solution which can be boiled down to two words:

I’ll make you a deal. I’ll admit that I was possibly mis-reading rage or discord in your comments if you can agree that it is possible you misread genuine good intention for condescension.

I see. So you are going to continue to deflect instead of having a bona fide conversation. How do you square chiding me for condescension only to turn around and call ME the tone police? Do you see the irony there?

You want to lead me to water, but you do not want to have a bona-fide conversation. Can you see how disingenuous that makes all of your commentary? You don’t want a conversation, you just want to holler and rage at someone you’ve decided is wrong. You have made no attempt to talk to me like a real human being. That…

you were acting/writing like a condescending tool.

Dude, I think that if you are reading crusade into any of this then you haven’t made it all the way through the comments.

And to make all this that much better, I’ve officially been labeled as a troll by Tomi Marchant.

I completely agree and I really appreciate that.