Pro tip: Nobody wants to hear you telling them that what they're doing to raise their child is "second best", especially when it's not. I take medications that are excreted in breast milk. I don't have a baby right now, but if I did, formula WOULD be the best for it.

Was there any particular reason why you needed to make this comment? Did you feel like you missed out on the opportunity to pile on a woman who did the best possible thing to care for her baby? Or did you just want to share your greater masculine wisdom?

To each their own, except when a total stranger's name choice makes you sad. And you think she should make choices to encourage other women to make the choices you want them to make.

That's different. If she'd said something like this, or that she'd taken food because she was hungry or whatever, that'd be understandable. But what she described is flat out theft, supposedly justified by failure to meet some arbitrary sex standard. If a guy did this, we'd all consider him a scumbag.

I don't really see what there is to be proud in being a walking, talking MRA stereotype, but hey, feel free to keep hijacking conversations with irrelevant confessions if that's what you need to feel whole.

No, sorry, they absolutely CAN try harder. See my post above about living with a brain injury. The thing is, you have to WANT to address the issue. If the way you choose to deal with it is to make your friends wait for you, that's fine. But it's not the only choice.

I have a brain injury that causes problems with executive functioning, memory and spatial reasoning. The night before I make a list of clothes and what I'm taking. Then I use a GPS on my phone, because I can get lost going some place I've been 100 times. I'm not always on time, but I feel that if I can make the effort…

Why does it upset me? Because I am bad at estimating how long it takes to get somewhere and I'm bad at getting everything done before I need to leave. Nevertheless, I usually manage to start getting ready really early, even if there are other things I might be able to squeeze in. I usually leave really early, even if…

You know what I wouldn't do? I wouldn't tell my child that a celebrity they met once, many years ago, had died. I mean sure, if it came up, I wouldn't hide the truth. But for Koko, Robin Williams exists almost entirely in movies. It's not like she's going to run across a story about him in the paper or on the news.

Really disgusted at the women who've turned out to defend poor Bristol Palin. She's the child of privilege, raised to believe she hit a triple after being born on third base. She didn't get pregnant as the result of rape, she got pregnant as a result of unprotected sex. And after that, she wanted to sell herself as an…

Given your argument that there's no real physical difference between 16 and 18 year olds, whey can't these guys just look at 18 year old porn? There's plenty of it out there. One can only think that part of the appeal is the "illicit" aspect of underaged girls. And if that's the case, there's really no age at which we…

And, I think, he is also a troll. It must be useful to have so little conscience that you amuse yourself in discussions about child abuse.

Every time someone watches/looks at a child being sexually abused, whether or not it was PAID FOR, it contributes to the harm that child experiences. Victims of child pornography have spoken at length about how devastating it is that not only were they molested, but that people continue to get gratification from their…

You know what else is a long time? The rest of your life knowing that old men get drunk and watch videos of you being victimized as a kid.

It doesn't work that way. Federal child abuse statutes require intent. Think about this — why would the federal government be interested in prosecuting people who had not deliberately accessed child pornography? That's a logistical nightmare and does nothing to protect victims or prevent further production. I have no…

Oh, come on. Don't attempt to access child pornography. If you inadvertently run across some, report it to the authorities. Grisham's friend went looking for it, found it and went to jail. It's really very simple.

Oh, sorry. My bad. I think my rage at John Grisham affected my reading comprehension.

So, just to be clear, Grisham's friend went looking for kiddie porn, found it, got caught and is now serving a sentence for the crime he committed. The justice system worked. And if you're the kind of guy who gets drunk and goes looking for child pornography, how do we know you're not the kind of guy who gets drunk…

Yes, that's how it works. Why it bothers you is unclear, but you can make a petition on We The People and if you get enough signatures, the White House will address it.

Bullshit. Even if he were somehow, through some astronomically unlikely quirk of fate, to accidentally come across child pornography on the internet, he should have reported it to his local law enforcement agency. They are running investigations on this stuff, FFS. It's possible to look at a computer and tell if…