It’s not about what you said.

Yeah, but Dwaye is consistently a misogynistic shitbird here, who spends time here for reasons only Freud could puzzle out.

I was pretty disappointed by how tame this episode was, considering the director was Gregg Araki. I’m low-key kinda obsessed with his work.

Tyrannosaurus Sex

Kill employee’s what?

Netflix went on to say that Bright was particularly popular with subscribers’ Canadian girlfriends.

I was in a group discussing the #MeToo movement, and a guy asked what he could do. Someone told him to stop being silent when he saw or heard bullshit from other guys. I said, “Yeah, you play the ‘humorless bitch’ once in a while so that a woman doesn’t have to do it and be told that she’s the only one there with a…

Society is so out of whack. Why does a teleprompter reader deserve 4 mansions? Give one to a nurse.

Great, did you want a cookie? She didn’t leave because she didn’t want to be rude, because she’s been taught it’s safer to give a soft no than a hard one, because was afraid that she would insult him by leaving and he’d follow her and she couldn’t get away clean, for one of about one of a million reasons. Does it…

He thought she was totally into it. He thought, “I don’t want to feel forced” meant “try again in a few minutes.”

Why aren’t you asking “Why didn’t Aansari stop when she told him to?”

“I am not a troll”

Like most lazy Americans, I watch too many movies.  I’ve never seen a Woody Allen movie. I knew at age 12 that any asshole who marries his step-daughter is a fucking predator and have actively avoided his work. That’s not meant to be a pat on my back, I’ve spent too much time wading around in toxic masculinity to…

It’s because #MeToo forces them to consider that they had little agency in their younger lives. To survive in that kind of misogynistic environment they had to pretend they wanted all that harassment to some degree and it’s very disorienting to have to look back on it with new eyes.

Yup, this. Labeling frank discussion about money as “crass” and “rude” only benefits the people and institutions who have a ton of money and power, and I think it disproportionately harms women. I took a slightly unusual career path for my degree, and I’m pretty frank about the fact that I’m paid well in my current…

Are you trying to miss the point?

Seems like a gendered way of saying women should shut up about things. “That’s not classy” = “I don’t like what you’re saying.”

fuck “class”. she’s trying to make real change in the industry. expecting women to be “classy” while they work hard at things is just another way of policing them.

So, my first relationship was emotionally abusive and full of stuff like this. There were a lot of moments where I would try to withdraw consent and he would pressure me/coerce me/gaslight me/lie to me/trick me into giving him what he wanted. He never physically forced me, but he played mind games that ignored my…