There are complaints about the writing, but a lot of the complaints are about the character/actress

Except they actually have a reason this time.

I'm going to guess they have to end up together, because canon

Both. Barry IS getting faster, but there are bound to be details that you have to gloss over

I think you mean "Phantom zone". Get your universe right

Oliver still has some money left over from being mega rich. Central City has kinda lost it.

I believe it would only be impossible to talk if running faster than the speed of sound (which I don't think he always does). And technically, since sound is just vibrations, couldn't he just vibrate correctly to "talk"?

Stephen Amell explained on FB that for a billionaire being broke, they still have a few million, and that the show will address it more later.

Yeah, Detective Captain Lance has said he doesn't want to know. Probably in part for plausible deniability

Yeah, there are a lot of ways it could have happened, but it was far from obvious to the audience

He's not talking about banging random girls - he's talking about a real relationship. You know, the exact thing he's been brooding about for the last few episodes

Fortunately, they address this (to some extent) in part two

Since Ollie spent his entire life as a playboy, and is now in way better shape, I'm pretty sure he knows he could hook up with women all he wants. That's not what he's talking about. He's talking about a real, committed relationship that might distract the hero and make their significant other a target.

I'm pretty sure he's nowhere close to THAT speed yet. Since he had to work up to breaking the sound barrier

Wouldn't it depend on how far/fast they go?

Most people don't know the muzzle velocity of a bullet. Which doesn't excuse the writers, but doesn't qualify the show as "insultingly stupid" either.

But he doesn't take point. He's generally more "I've got your back"

I agree that she hasn't been fleshed out much yet, but it seems a little early in the show to hate seeing her. I mean, it's not like she's bad, she just hasn't established that she's good. And a lot of the lack of development is due to her role as a character - she's not with the police, so she won't have that…

Barry did throw Oli around - but since he can't run much over 600 MPH, he certainly can't throw a person who outweighs him at 600 MPH

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