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That was very kind of you to say. It's always refreshing to see unexpected kindness, even directed at another :)

I've been wondering that too! I really tried to enjoy his little production, but I was super caught up on his face, and what was...going on there :/

I got a lot of comments from my dad about my weight growing up. It’s weird, I can very clearly remember the first time he did it, and up until that point had no negative self-evaluations about my size. After that? Tons of them. Constantly. Now when I look back on pictures from that time, I’m genuinely baffled as to

I had the same thought. Seems odd to close.

Sweet Jesus, I really don't think he does get it. What an obnoxious thread to stumble on! Super frustrating. The question being asked is pretty straight forward...

I just discovered that show and looooooove it! Happy watching :)

Also, as I previously stated, I run one of our main programs (as director). A new male was recently hired on. He is less qualified, isn’t running a program, and his starting salary is the same as what I currently make, after 2+ years running the program. I apologize for coming off as strongly as o am, I could have

I took over 6 months after he started in the position. I’ve now been in it for over two years, and as I said, am making significantly less. Because you’re apparently the police of “legitimate complaining,” the other female I work with who is receiving way less pay than her male counterpart has been there for about 4

I’m not being given much credit for actually having this experience. I’m a fairly intelligent human, and not one likely to make a claim of something for any other reason than it happened. The person in the position before me had a new position created for him, making a significant sum of money. Why? He’s friends with

Where I work the pay difference is horrendous. I’m a program director. The person in the position prior to me, with the same qualifications, was paid $20,000 more per year. Probably goes without saying that I’m a female, he is not. A new woman we just hired is being paid $7 per hour less than the man who was

Haha, I’m JUST now realizing I missed this message too, damn it. I could have had some much more adventurous evenings, had I known what “Movie” meant :’(

It really is. I try to encourage it everywhere I go :)

“Can’t Let Go” is currently my favorite. It’s only on the extended album at Target, and totally worth the extra bucks. Prior to that I’d have to say “Hello” was it, and/or “Love in the Dark.” “Can’t Let Go” is so good, and so sad :/

I have, but unfortunately couldn't maintain the cost of the membership. Supposedly we are getting a community pool soon, at that point I'll probably start that up again.

Fuck, I'm sorry. I don't get it either. Not one bit.

Thank you! This is perfect advice :)

I think this could be a great tactic with him, thank you! Yeah. I feel really sad for younger me too. I always felt so confused at what i had done wrong.

This is a great idea! I tend to do better if my efforts are linked to something I care about. Thank you!

Thank you, I really appreciate your kindness! One more surgery and I'm hoping I'll be all set. After that it should be a lot easier to be active.

God, I wish I could do that. He's really intimidating. The thing that pisses me off the most is I can think back to 4th, 5th, 6th grade when he would make comments about my weight, and I'd feel SO shitty. Seeing pictures of myself during that time? I was a big kid (tall, big structure), but not at all fat or