Ex-fucking-actly.

This site occasionally likes to dump on white women (the majority of it coming from, I suspect, white women).

I went to see the movie with my boyfriend and his parents, and we all really liked it! It was really cute, and I enjoyed that they cast a non-white guy in a role that did not necessarily call for an Indian actor. 

I seriously don’t understand how anyone could not like Hereditary.

I loved every second of it, except the (too small) number of worlds. 

I read the whole thing without issue, so I'm confused at why people seem to think it was too long.

I think our empathy should be directed at the ones who do want help and are willing to accept advice. I have had conversations with a lot of incels, some of whom were openly hostile toward women, but all of them were in a very dark place emotionally. Some of them switched from berating me to admitting that they had…

This chart based on an OKCupid survey forever changed how I look at older men:

Believe it or not, incels think women are the ones who will settle for nothing less than an Uber-Chad, regardless of how they themselves look. Which is mindblowing to me, because it’s the complete antithesis of my experience.

Honestly, I’d rather not look at testicles at all, so I sure as shit don’t want them to be bigger. 

“Caress Me Down” is #1 on my list of “songs so unpleasant that I won’t listen to them.”

Oh yeah, the really fucked-up guys believe that preteens are the only virgins available (and thus the only “women” worthy of them).

That’s really sad. It’s so unjust how often abuse begets more misery (and often, more abuse).

They will rant about how they won’t settle for anything less than a hot chick under age 25 in the same breath that they rant about how shallow women are. The lack of self-awareness is really something else.

Making friends as an adult is fucking hard, and I haven’t really reached the point yet where my couple friends start having kids, so I imagine it’s going to be even harder. I think it’s possible a lot of people around you, much like you, are afraid to invite others to stuff outside of work. Sometimes you just have to…

They believe crazy things about “Chads” and all women. Like, I remember one of them declaring with absolute seriousness that the average American woman has sex with 200 different men every year. I think it’s a kind of masochistic delusion that they derive some weird comfort from.

I think you just described a very typical MRA/incel type. For people who are not naturally socially adept, it’s freaking hard to learn that kind of stuff...it’s hard even to just figure out what you’re doing wrong. And it’s even harder for those of them who are also not naturally empathetic, which I believe is a…

That could be it, but I suspect the main reason is that there’s a huge overlap between incel-brand misogyny and general social dysfunction.

I used to try to give advice to incels on Reddit. In this case, these were guys who were seeking advice on an anti-incel forum, so they had a genuine desire to improve their lives.

The only thing I can come up with is that when it comes to self-hatred, women turn it inward, as in “I’m the problem. If I weren’t so ugly/fat/stupid men would like me.” and men turn it outward, as in “They are the problem, They don’t understand me. They just want my money...” and of course, society gives men more…