to clarify: i am not talking about consentual BDSM. in BDSM, everyone is enjoying themselves and is giving informed consent; from my outside understanding of it, the consent and the trust involved is the point. i don’t practice BDSM myself but i get it and that’s not what i’m talking about here. i’m talking about rape…

lots of pedophiles only look at child porn and don’t actively molest children. that doesn’t make them harmless and it doesn’t make pedophilia OK. some rape porn is not consentual (hell, some regular porn is not consentual and the performers are being abused while you watch) but the stuff that mimics it but is actual…

as a sexual violence survivor, i don’t want to hear any apologia about rape porn and rape kinks, and will be dismissing any replies in that vein just so everyone knows.

but rape porn is totally cool and you have to agree if you want to call yourself a “sex-positive” feminist! kink shaming is wrong!

no, i think it’s important to talk about how sick and unhealthy having fantasies like that are, because they can lead to the real deal. i’m tired of listening to people unquestioningly defend all rape kink and rape-play like it’s a healthy outlet—it’s not healthy.

Yin yang cuddle kitties !

This is my sweet baby boy, Atticus!

Veronica is on top and Hiro is on the bottom.

This popped up on my feed the other day, I went to school with one of these girls. Go A!

Cool. Hold the trial on the moon. He’s still guilty.

Get off your high horse and stop underestimating us HamNo. When the time comes that we can’t take any more, the people will rise up and make some dumbass memes.

Carrie Fisher is a phenomenal writer. I read Postcards from the Edge and Surrender the Pink and Delusions of Grandma as a teen and more than many things (and I read a lot of things), they made me feel a lot less alone. People have been such dickheads to her of late because she dared to age past 19 and yet she is still…

There’s a difference between working for a customer you don’t particularly like (or even loath) vs publicly acting to prop up and celebrate them. More than that, because this isn’t just “a job” they have to deal with becoming a propaganda tool for a politician who supports legislature that may directly seek to negate…

The bit about Lil Kim is not cool, saying “looking better disguised than usual” about someone who clearly has hangups regarding their skin tone is a shitty thing to say.

Edt: WE FOUND HIM. I’ll try to respond to everyone, but in the meantime, thank you. Thank you thank you thank you. Jezzies, I came here in hopes that readers would make me feel less horror-movie plague-infected depressed, and you came through. Love you all. ❤❤

Hey, do you have any meth memes?

When I was arrested for possession this should’ve been my defense. Dammit!

They need to believe it’s fake, because otherwise they live in a world where they’re actively complicit in the continuing slaughter of innocent children by privileging gun rights over human rights. They can’t live with the implications if Sandy Hook really happened, so it must not have. It’s a potent form of denial…

Right now the Sandy Hook Hoax page (listed as an education site) on Facebook has 12,719 likes.