It's all the same to me
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Starting back in September I've been going to the gym three times a week for half an hour of (light) weight training and half an hour of cardio. I stopped for a couple of weeks recently due to a bad cold and coughing and just started back last week. I intended to go today, but when I went in for my dog walking shift…
I have a seven year old mutt named Chestnut. He started out as a foster dog at 7 weeks—he'd been found abandoned in an empty lot with a litter mate. He has mild spina bifida and his back legs are misshapen. He can get around fine, he just can't move his back legs separately so he has a funny sort of bunny hop. He can…
1. Pretty good week. My husband is in LA all week, since last Friday so it's getting a little tedious being the only parent at home—mostly for being chauffeur since neither of my daughters drive. These are my days off, I work at a theatre so I'm working shows all weekend. Which fortunately is a job I enjoy, so it's…
Shame and despair
Once again, I confused URI with UTI and wondered how in the world you came to that conclusion
I'm torn between the delight of finally finding something often by chance, and the ease of tracking down things now. I remember in my teens wanted a to own a copy of an out of print childhood favorite book and finally finding it by chance in a used book store. It was a wonderful moment, and I still have the book. But…
Ah, yes, I remember dating. Good times.
I want to believe the persona is real and I kind of want to be his true buckaroo
Maybe trope would be a better word? I just think that I see the idea of the woman who is "turned lesbian" after an unfulfilling hetero relationship to be more common from writers who don't identify as being gay.
I think it's more of a common hetero fantasy
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Overthinking is my superpower. Or a curse.
Well, yeah, pansexual means you find all genders sexually attractive. Male, female, gender fluid, trans whether post or pre op, and more gender identities that I'm forgetting. People also identify as panromantic or aromantic. Also, my daughters are 14 and 18 and they've been pretty clear on all the prefix-sexual…
I see it as more sexual attraction, not just waiting to have sex. That you don't even find someone sexually attractive until you get to know them, rather than finding them sexually attractive, but wanting to get to know them better before you have sex.
That's pretty much it. That you aren't sexually attracted to be just by appearances. That the idea of some person looking so hot you could bang them right there, or being sexually attracted to celebrities, or people you've never met, purely because you find them good looking, just doesn't make sense. I've felt I…
Okay, but what if the other person isn't making it clear because they do feel the same way, and they are just as awkward/scared about saying something and jeopardizing the friendship? And sometimes if you start looking for clues that they feel the same way that can be a difficult game as well—did they do that because…
There is also a kind of fried chicken in Japan that uses mochiko flour—the box will say sweet rice flour, but it's not really sweet, it's short grain glutinous rice. You make a batter and marinate it, then deep fry it