I am confused by your geography, but approve your message.

It’s very amusing to be called a liar by someone who openly admits to dismissing replies that disagree with her.

Yep, this. People who are risk averse are going to avoid risk.

So much this.

As a dude, there is a lot of truth here.

I should have known you two would be best friends.

Sheesh is the one who implied that it was rare for women to be insecure about their bodies.

I’m confused as to how you noticed it happened to you personally, but don’t think it’s noticeable. Clearly we think those words mean different things. :)

I’m truly astonished that _you’re_ the one talking about moving goalposts!

When it comes to “different things women say to men when they are alone” the average man has heard from many sources. The average woman has heard from one.

Meanwhile, now I’m wondering about how this applies to gay men and cum.  My male friends don’t normally have these sorts of conversations...

I think we’re pretty much agreeing.

Yep, dude here.

But literary fic sex scenes usually aren’t meant to be erotic.  That’s like complaining that Picasso’s artwork isn’t realistic.

+1 Mutual of Orgasm’s Wild Kingdom

potterpoet is as much a troll as Tomato ever was.

It’s difficult to tell what is performative, and what is real, but I’ve had a few partners who without any sort of prompting from me acted like they found cum super hot.   I suspect that like a lot of sexytime things everyone is different, but porn over-represents the subset of things that look interesting on film and…

Obligatory Oglaf.com two pages.  NSFW

You should start a Yelp page for it.

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