Predators can choose wildly different victims because it’s not about attraction. It’s about domination and violation.

True, there’s a significant difference between Allen & Weinstein. But since Allen also married Mia Farrow’s adopted daughter and continually makes movies pairing a young actress with a much older actor (even moreso than is the norm in Hollywood), typically playing that role himself in his earlier films, it’s hard not…

Talk to other guys and be a voice for us. That’s really powerful and a great way of making better things you’re not proud of.

I haven’t been a perp of this behavior, but I have witnessed and listened to too many victims of this (and many similar behaviors). I don’t know how to apologize enough...

Talk to your male friends. Make them think about their behaviour. Pay it forward, sort of

I’ll repeat my answer to The Armdancer, since I’m grey and it’s quite possible you’ll never see it.

One thing you can do - call it out when you see other guys doing it. It takes so much to go against the grain, but it also takes just one guy speaking up sometimes to diffuse a potentially bad situation.

Exactly. The only way he could pull something like this off is if they didn’t tell him. Since he’s such a warm and devoted spouse, I’m sure he’d pick up on that right away. Hell, she may have taken off ages ago and no one’s noticed.

Okay, but if it was a body double, Trump definitely would say something like, “my wife Melania, she’s right here. This is definitely not a body double.”

Of course it doesn’t help that the CEO of the United States is a serial harasser of women and possibly an assailant. While he is not the first president who lacked a basic moral compass and disrespected his spouse, family and others (JFK) he certainly is the most public - and he doesn’t give two fucks who knows it.

Oh my God, I turned it on and Jezebel just asked me to turn it off. Creeeeeeeepy. Also, no. I will not.

Were either given an official position as an advisor to their dad?

I would have thought the article made no sense. I mean Obama’s oldest daughter wasn’t even born yet when Cobain died. Now we are supposed to believe a baby dyed her hair blue? The whole story would fall apart.

right? the plot is literally rich men raping and pillaging.

Why I was not interested in West World after just a few minutes watching the pilot.

The question is, why the fuck is Border Patrol listening to a guy like this? He is clearly in need of some kind of help, but they just take him at his word when he claims that he someone is in the country illegally.

So Rusty is a pre-internet troll? I should have sympathy for him but fuck that, you don’t deport people because you’re mad, sad and lonely. That’s some psycho shit.

The second man to rape me, a man I have known for 2 years, has been texting this week, asking to meet up and talk, so he can explain his ‘side of things.’ He doesn’t understand my refusal and my anger.

Making it about what you are supposed to say makes it about you, and makes the solution that point where you say the right thing and get forgiven and feel good about yourself again. Listen. It’s not about you. What you say and do tomorrow matters, but it won’t be the turning point in the history of the world, it’ll…

You know what’s really hard to hear about that – it may be easy for YOU.