haha, totally agree with you on this tactic - however, a lot of people have this bogus idea that you "owe" former friends/ acquaintances some kind of breakup conversation.. get ready for some "how could you do that to somebody" replies, which is stupid because the whole point is you aren't doing anything to anybody..

well shit.. i'll admit i was originally thinking of a much snarkier comment, glad i dialed it back and just asked directly. thanks for the info, i wouldn't agree that this qualifies as "rape" but it definitely changes my thoughts on sexual violence against men

"male victims who are not penetrated but rather forced to penetrate"

nobody gives a shit about your college degree