real conversation i’ve had with a tinder date

Maybe she just peed on him because she wanted it to be over?

I would comment on the nature of his article itself, but I knew he was a world class bullshitter when he humble-bragged that on his very first trip to the snackateria, he managed to make his partner squirt.

Since many people do not believe that the Bible is the unfiltered word of God - it may be the word of God, but filtered through the limited understanding of the humans he spoke to, and then filtered further through time by many other humans trying to understand, record, and in some cases manipulate for their own…

I am thrilled you found a denomination that accepts you as an equal. It is sad when Christianity becomes more about control over people than loving other people. I'm glad you escaped the fundamentalist tent with your faith and grace (yes, there is a double meaning here) intact.

Why are people shitting on her for saying that? It’s true.

As someone who is two weeks out of an abusive relationship, I did not understand what she said in that way. It is a weakness. It is not our fault, but it is a weakness placed on us by a society that tells us we should be a certain way (passive, etc) and we should let men take control of us. It is a weakness that even…

People routinely say that women “feed off of drama” or love drama or try to create it. It’s a blame tactic and it’s condescending.

I dunno, maybe the part where she asked Nicki if Nicki feeds off the drama? That’s condescending AF, if you ask me. I’d bet dollars to donuts the interviewer isn’t saying shit like that to the men she interviews.

Well I don’t know, asking her if she ‘feeds off the drama’, especially considering her personal ties to all the guys involved and how it must be a strain on her in the middle, is rather irritating.

“Now that I’m an adult, I realize that women stay whether a man’s rich or poor. It’s just a weakness.”

Good for her. There's no reason for her to take that shit.

yeah I’ve never downloaded the messenger app and solely “message” through my browser. I can still “talk” to folks and Zuck gets nothing more from me.

Hopefully some other company jumps to get him. He seems pretty bright.

Something tells me Aran is going to do just fine without this internship. Actually, Facebook probably would have just held him back from his true potential.

Yep, and it sucks. It’s a really shitty feeling, too, especially when you genuinely cared about their friendship and you find out they were just waiting on a piece of ass they thought they’d eventually get.

What’s the point? Men often don’t listen when you say something directly. Hell, I had to move somewhere that an outsider can’t find without help because my ex boyfriend would not hear me when I said “I am breaking up with you. Never contact me again.” He just ignored me and acted like I was still his girlfriend

It has happened to me when I have been exceptionally explicit.

Me too, homie. At the first sign of no, I vanish.

I agree so hard.... I spent two years being jerked around by a guy friend I was totally in love with who would tell me one day that he was so glad we found each other and tuck my hair behind my ear, then tell me he felt like we were siblings, then get jealous over male attention I got. It was maddening.