Gosh, the sweet spot is somewhere in between, and I think for me it was as I got older, I just became very guarded and I was plenty guarded as a young person. I wasn’t shamed but always warned that I should trust no man and to not be very accommodating. Very long story. B beyond not being very adventurous in my early…

Actually, I’m remember this other dude at school I used to just obsess over and I think he was into me too, but I had this boyfriend back home and I coulda totally hooked up with him but was being ‘loyal’... silly silly...

Now that you mention it... I wish I were sluttier now too! It’s a been a long while...

I kinda regret not being … not sluttier but not ‘going for it more....’ There’s at least one man I regret not banging so... maybe it’s not silly but sad. (Pretty sure he was a diagnosable Narcissist so my instincts probably served me well but damn he was pretty!)

Aw man - two shows I regret missing:

All the hugs for you, Pumpkin. (0)

Is it me or am I getting a bit of a Brittany Murphy vibe from the Lili Reinhart actor? For a split second, her facial expression reminded me of her.

Because J Lo is mixed race (assuming) and, as they say, ‘black don’t crack’.
I also have a mixed background, I’m about 75% white meat and the rest is eclectic. I am almost 50 but have the skin of a 35 year old (actually better skin now I think). It’s genetic and I am a freak ....I got carded twice last week and I have…

How many of us get the narrative we wanted or thought we would get in our lives? Maybe she has a roll in developing it only because there is no way to resist it?

Actually... that is ‘one last thing’ I do need to do - is replace my 1960's 6 gallon tank (I use the ‘if it’s mellow, let it mellow’ to conserve on water as I’m single and don’t mind) with a modern water efficient - someone recommended the Toto Max G (?) or something like that. I need to get through the kitchen reno.

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I so want a bidet! There are kits you can buy that adapt to standard toilets, so I’ve heard.

BTW - the sparkly grout is “glass filled grout” and it looks lovely next to a glass tile because of how the light goes thru the tile and into the grout. It’s kind of magical. Highly recommend looking at it. Also, I used a electrical matt under my tile floor and I love love having a heated tile floor especially in the…

I have been in my place for a long time, and because I suffered a huge blow during the recession, I have had to put off a lot of work until recently. (Finally making good money again! and I have a lot of equity too). And while there’s a lot I love about my place. I’m kind of ready to move on but yet that may be…

Thanks! I’m somewhat in the biz but do very little residential or interiors work so I know very little about this! I was going to just go with plain old subway tile and grey grout - but everything we picked out is so darn pretty and the samples look good. I do understand about getting a good tiler and the extra 10 %.…

What might you do for a friend that you don’t really like and but going through a rough time in their life - partially because of their personality but also bad personal choices that have been some what programmed into her by shitty parenting? I’ve known this person for a long time and we had some shared interests 15…

The thirst is strong with this one.

I’m gonna watch the eggnog out of these movies!

D’oh. I’m almost there and feel that I too have beaten old age! (To be fair, I do get carded once in a great while. Last Saturday, told that I looked under 40, I’ll take it!!!)

True, but it sounds like from a few other replies to me that Kevin is solid and a better alternative to grandpa. 

Thank you, I did not know this! I too hope then that her kids can stay with Kevin more than less, especially until she’s able to get her life back and away from her father. Terrible.