I read somewhere that Cindy Crawford, who was at one point one of the top models (I don’t know about now) spent hours a day posing in the mirror growing up and she became a super successful model. People who can pick it up easily are probably either naturally talented or have spent time on working their appearance.

To summarize, I don’t think that developing new habits has anything to do with self control.

Well my reading of what you described is that you improved your relationship with food, not that you increased your self control. I fell like u had something mental going on where you didn’t value yourself that led to poor eating and the therapy made you give a fuck about about making changes to eat to live as opposed…

Are you a man? Because I’m a female molestation victim and with the recent media shit show I’ve seen clear examples of women being dismissed because they’re women and men being taken seriously because they’re men. Weinsteins downfall was a perfect storm of the victims having the “right” attributes to be taken…

Cos they confirm people’s prejudice and make normal gays look bad. When a “normal” straight molested a kid, a kid gets molested. When a gay person molested a kid, a kid is molested AND it confirms everyones worst fears about gays. That’s why black rape is the worst rape. Whenever you hear a crime without details…

How did you improve your self control?

I think he’s talking about quitting the gay illuminati pre-contract casting couch stuff.

If somebody wanted me to text them every day after work id need to start doing a better job of expressing and enforcing boundaries.

Isn’t agriculture how class division began and social roles became solidified in the first place?

People assuming you’re right leaning from you defending the use of taxpayer money is actually an example of dog whistle politics in action.

Are you really bad at picking up patterns in the way humans use words or are you gaslighting?

I am really confused about why penetrating someone nonconsensually with their fingers would be less serious than any other sexual assault.

Should say he wouldn’t assume the status quo is the problem, but how she navigates it

That’s not about women being different, that’s about men’s default being shitty. Gay dudes rape dudes and don’t think they’re mysterious aliens. Men see everything as dog eat dog and when women want to be treated differently they think they want some kind of special treatment. For example they think it’s ok to opress…

if somebody is saying to you “i think our five year plan should be engagement, marriage, moving to canada, you translating your job skils, and starting a family, i need you on board and a decision about whether we should make this commitment” “but we’re not even engaged yet!” is a really weird response.

what’s the point of getting engaged so that you can enjoy married life with kids if you don’t know if you’re going to have the kids? if canda is a deal breaker that’s something i’d figure out before getting engaged. i feel like you’re putting the cart before the horse in a lot of ways here.

you remind me of my…

it ISN’T creepy for a man to start rubbing a woman’s legs at a bar. it is creepy for a man to start rubbing a woman’s legs against her will at a bar. i think there is one of two thing going on here. you were open to having your legs rubbed and communicated this nonverbally, or, you were uncomfortable with having your…

these are reportlinker’s stats for where people met their partner. 6% school, 7% thu family, 8% online dating, 9% sports, religion, or hobbies, 12% in public or at bars, 15% at work, and 39% through friends. the majority of times i’ve dated somebody is that they were a friend’s friend or friend’s friend’s friend ect…

You also have to hope that she’s part of the tiny minority of women who is open to being approached by a stranger.

Im not sure where this pressure is coming from.