So what’s this dude into if not her?

Absolutely. That’s the number one most important part of anything working out, especially if you decide to see a professional. And if you do decide to see a professional? You might have to try one or two before finding the right one. A bit like goldilocks. But don’t give up; you deserve it.

You sound like a wonderful human being as do your friends, both male and female and your spouse. I wish you and all the survivors who are reading these posts the very best (as well as those who support the survivors in their lives).

Ughhhh, dying. We should be pen palssssss.

My. God. Not a single one of these fuckers has or had any agency over your body or mind. You deserve so much.

The numbness is a big indicator. Won’t you consider talking to someone?

So basically it’s time to write a book about her.

More stories of this grand Duchess.

how dare you. no.

Dooo it. You mussst.

Exactly. Like somewhere deep down inside, he’s actually getting deep joy and satisfaction in equal parts to our cringing.

Because he probably thinks he’s the victim right now and he’s angry. He probably doesn’t think he’s done anything wrong.

Rape cases are notoriously hard. Especially when it comes to sex workers, who are typically seen as “unrapable”. When it comes to BDSM scenes, where “no” is commonly part of the power play, not a safe word that automatically makes sex stop, and where pushing the limits is part of the experience...well, you can see how…

Hahahaha look guys, he only tried to humiliate, intimidate and coerce this woman who was tied up to let him cattle prod her even after she’d explicitly said NO IN SEVERAL DIFFERENT MEDIUMS.

Maybe you can take his place now that there is a power vacuum in the porn world for a feminist male sex hero.

I don’t get this. He had sex with women in murder basement industrial buildings, while stepping on their faces and slapping his co stars until they looked disoriented and yet he’s not a “disgusting homonculus like most men in hetero porn?”

That is horrifying.

And the compensation goes down after the first act. The woman may get a higher rate for her first “virgin” act but since women are a dime a dozen in the porn industry, her compensation goes down after she’s been “broken in” and exposed doing whatever sex acts a few times in front of the camera.

jesus christ.

There are also porn actresses claiming to have been raped on tape and others claiming to have been assaulted with crew around so the swift action here is in a different context than with Cosby who did all his work alone.