lmao @ spend good money on skin care. No white people-dog teas here. I just know some women like certain shit that cannot be defined as “typical” to say the very least.

It’s not arrogant at all. These are your experiences after all. It makes sense if you’ve seen these qualities in action, why you’d want them all collected together.

I’ll be forwarding this to my husband.

You are not good at this.

That right there is a big old pile o’ NOPE.

It was definitely kinjaverse for me too - Jez, Lifehacker and Gizmodo wrote pieces on it. Plenty of people needed this.

Pro tip: Start HOURS before. Shoot her a flirty text in the morning, send her some flowers (her female coworkers will be more than jealous) and call her when she is on her way home to tell her how sexy she is. When you two finally meet up, most of your work is already done as she will already be in the mindset for…

I can’t remember where or who, but I am also pretty sure the Kinjaverse got me steered towards it.

I was seriously about to link to that site. Not sure if someone recommended it in the comment sections or Jez had an article on it, but I’ve had that site bookmarked for years. Great resource.

She said she was like WTF?

I will be honest - my husband and I got this from our couples counselor, who also has a focus on sexual wellness. My husband developed some major anxiety after a few years into our marriage, which bled into our sex life and it was not good.

I’m tryna watch all the happy Jones celebrations (thanks to THE BLACKS), sis, and you out here spittin fire..

Thanks for sharing this. I needed to see it. I am in dire need of doing this myself, as I restarted my entire intimate life. I have had to come to terms with many self-esteem issues and fears that resided in me for years and explained why I always had a hard time with sex.

You are doing the lord’s work here.

Oh my. This is some good shit here.

There’s also Sensate Focus. It’s some cartoony NSFW so I’m linking instead of embedding.

*takes all notes necessary in How To Be A Better Perv Notebook*

In regards to #2: Just because the nipples are dark meat, doesn’t mean it’s tough meat. Some of us don’t like them gnawed on like raw hide or aggressively fondled like they’re TV knobs on an old RCA floor model TV from 1983.

I can dig this. This sounds like a good person here.