And as a side note, he was sort of out of line. He was made aware of it existence and could of left it there. But instead he went out of his way to find the video, find out she uploaded and than sat on it for years and confronted her about it. For something he was supposed to be cool about, he already proved he wasn’t…
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THANK YOU. Good lord, the misplaced self-righteousness of that letter-writer was nauseating.
Am I the asshole for not just looking the other way
Nice.
My last boyfriend and his best friend were members of special forces, graduates of Annapolis. They were supposed to pick me up at my office for lunch one day and the best friend arrived early, “to get to know me better”. The memory of my boyfriend nearly kicking down my office door and angrily quizzing me about…
That was my first thought. It takes a lot of nerve to go “fact check” a story like that and then be angry at the other person.
I think it’s absolutely essential to break the association between an orgasm and “successful” sex. Sex is good when the parties enjoy it, period. Sometimes you’ll come and she won’t, and that’s fine as long as you’re both contented. Sometimes she’ll come and you won’t, and that’s also fine. Sometimes neither of you…
How about a different take on #2
“A woman I was interested in told me that she was the victim of revenge porn, so I went to find the videos of her so I could watch them myself behind her back and didn’t tell her about it.”
“Here’s my general thought on radical honesty in relationships: it’s severely overrated. The idea that lying is always, always bad is far more black and white than I find to be reasonable.”
YESSSSS!!!!!!!!
Here’s the thing. People are dishonest. Some people are dishonest for really noble reasons. Telling a lie is not…
OK, yes. That is a red flag.
“I am a National Guard member where integrity, (honesty) is a vital part of my core values.”
Vet here alternating between cringing and laughing hysterically
You want another red flag? A 2.5 year “relationship” where you haven’t met the person yet.
I agree it’s a dumb thing to feel hurt over, but I disagree about it being a dumb thing to get into a disagreement about: I love moral debates about wacky sci-fi/fantasy scenarios like that.
I’ve failed to finish two or three times in a relationship i’ve had for about 5 months. Its usually because of a generally long stamina mixed with dehydration, lots of drinking, smoking, or some combination of the above. It’s a far better call to be honest about it, or joke about it, like “oh damn I guess I should…
That first letter was really interesting and the last two were... odd. I’ve definitely failed to orgasm on several occasions with my wife of almost 6 years, but I feel like that’s always been due to the fact that, for many men, sex is 90% about trying not to orgasm too soon. When I fail to orgasm, it’s often because…
yeah, my response on this one would be: stop paying this woman, you moron.
“I met this girl online and we ended up getting very close, a relationship that lasted almost 2 and a half years, we never met but skyped regularly.”
Sorry LW3 but the disagreement you are having with your wife not telling you if she slept with your friend IN ANOTHER FUCKING REALITY! Sorry guy but that is a dumb thing to get into a disagreement about. Mostly because the timeline was erased by other time traveling and time travel isn’t real!
if you do not meet in person you are not dating