QUEEN IS REGAL, REGAL IS QUEEN.

I cannot beLIEVE she is almost 60

Yes, I was just going to say that. She looks AMAZING.

Sorry but really just came to comment: GOD DAMN ANGELA BASSETT, HOW???? She is so beautiful.

Yeah when my husband learned he was adopted (at age 42, WTF!), my first response was, “You finally make sense to me” and his response was, “Yay, I’m not related to them!” Of course, the trauma and grief that he experienced soon after was no picnic.

Do we know that was the situation? Maybe her parents had fertility issues and used donor sperm? (But from dad’s reaction, it does sounds as if it was a surprise to him, too.)

I keep putting this response on here - lots of support available for you. There are so many in your situation right now. See my other posts.

There is a support group on Facebook if you are interested (see my other comments here). Many others are in your situation.

When I read your original comment, I legit Damn Gina’d that bc my first thought was how lucky you were and how jelly I was. I was lowkey hoping I didn’t share DNA with my narcissistic insane asshole of a father. But I hope your relationship with him gets its groove back and that you have nothing but peace and…

You’re right. My apologies. I expressed myself poorly. I meant it more as a way for people to share common stories because it seems a suprising number of people have gone through similar experiences. I know that the Pissing Contest articles are supposedly a competition that can be won. I saw it more of a sharing of…

Me too, though I had long suspected it. My mother told me when I was 16 that she’d had an affair and that she thought I was the other guy’s child. I was fine with that, since my “father” was a hardcore alcoholic. I never knew for sure, though, and as I’ve gotten older I’ve started worrying that I’m starting to look…

I did, too at the age of 62. I found a half sister through Ancestry and as we dug through old military records we discovered that our shared biological father, my Dad and my mother were all stationed together in the 50's. It was devastating. It’s been almost two years but I still think about it all the time. Did my…

telling me that I need to pay him back for 30 years of gifts he’s given me

You’re probably a better person than me as I would have immediately told him to fuck off and probably ignored him for a year.

Same - but 23&me!

Holy shit, I’m so sorry! That is not the way to find that info out.

You’re correct.

A walking, talking, human boil.

I actually snort laughed at “earthing,” because of course I clicked. I had to know.

Now Tayne I can get into. Can I see a hat wobble ... and a flarhgunnstow?