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My husband has long hair, and has had it for decades- so lots of practice, but even he struggles. Our daughter has super curly hair. But like, he practices. And sometimes it’s not perfect, and that’s ok. I see some women (sometimes!) undermining their SO but immediately undoing whatever they’ve done and redoing it,

You found it. Tony stark is iron man. 

Tony, house stark just killed me 

Agreed. The pushing of formula in countries where it literally cannot be afforded and clean water is not accessible is damn near criminal. But most of the US? Bullying people who have made an informed decision about something that does not concern you and keeps a child fed? Just, back it up. Stop. Get a hobby. Go make

I wanted to know bc I could. It didn’t change anything for me though. Still decorated the room the way I planned before we knew the gender- children’s book themed- in a pretty slate ocean blue pastel color I wish I’d done my room in, a big vinyl of where the wild things are above the crib, lots of book artwork (mostly

Every kid loves glitter. It’s a rule- if it makes a fantastic mess it’s fun. 

My girl is obsessed with robots, dinosaurs, “neighs” (horses/ unicorns), Batman, and anything construction related or glittery. She also has a giant puff of curly hair, and has very feminine features, and is constantly called a boy bc we often shop in the little boys dept bc many times that’s where her interests are.

You are correct. I had a bunch of them coming at me when I had my daughter and couldn’t breastfeed bc the medication I was on made it unsafe to breastfeed. I needed the medication to live, but people were telling me it was more important to breastfeed, so I should discontinue my medication. One of these people was the

I imagine that’s true, but I’ve never had that option

I’m not going to lie though, this place sounds amazing though 

I get it! Whenever I smell any of VS’s horrible smells (especially love spell) I think of terrible spiky let me talk to the manager haircuts and things with sparkly embellishments on them. It’s a thing. (And now you know what year I had my temp job at Victoria Secret) 

It really is. I guess there’s a chance the provider didn’t know, but damn. 

I have a private space, and so does my husband. I actually had mine first (bc I work out of mine and it makes money, so it was a priority). I like the idea of private spaces, bc I need a space to retreat sometimes. Mine is an office with a library in it, and a vintage sofa that I can chill on and read, or do work

We need to better. Health insurance companies are just big business, not invested in anyone’s actual health.

Been a daycare provider. That actually wouldn’t pass muster. You could call mom and ask, sure. But there’s an emergency contact card, and lack of viable food is an emergency.

Repeating music= literal torture after a certain point 

Yeah, that would do it. Had a coworker who loved U2- wasn’t a fan of them before- sure wasn’t after. 

That... didn’t look so bad, but I didn’t live it, so I don’t have the repeat play trauma stigma attached. 

Ugh. It’s terrible. I actually know a nurse (an old client of mine) who died from it, despite basically diagnosing herself. 

I have worked in two places where soy tracks repeated. Once was a work conference in a convention center/ hotel where the same twelve songs repeated for a week, and I went through a cycle of annoyance/ grief/ hatred/ acceptance/ briefly enjoying it/ and then wanted to kill my self to make it stop. I still have a