That is fucking horrific and also unsurprising. I’m lucky enough that nothing “happened” to me (beyond being drugged), but living with the knowledge that someone drugged me — and having no idea who it was or what their motivations or plans were — is traumatic as fuck and still affects me. That was truly the worst…

Exactly. Denial + people not understanding how these drugs work + sexism + rape culture + drugs mimicking regular ol intoxication = this shit happening alllll the time without people even knowing. After it happened to me, I kept thinking about how many times I’d seen people in the past I thought were just super wasted…

Oh hey good for you, you fucking genius who will never, ever be a victim of anything because you’re just that smart and the millions of people who get drugged are too dumb to like, keep our eyes open or something. You should write a book, you clearly know The One Weird Trick To Not Getting Roofied (Rapists HATE Her!).…

I know this seems like a fantastical suggestion, but we recently had someone come in to set up my husband’s brand-spanking-new home gym equipment, so in NYC you are still allowed to have workers in.

We get it. You don’t believe her. Go away.

Well that and Mormons usually have about a thousand kids.

I had the same question, but reading her full piece it occurred to me that the assailant could be somebody she knew, so leaving with that person wouldn’t necessarily raise red flags.

Did y’all really misspell “feud” in the title or am I having a stroke?

Uhhh. They’re fancy white people who live in the upper west side in NYC with 5 (FIVE!) kids and have a huge online following and the ability to just up and rent an RV and tiddle across the country for shits and giggles.

TLDR they are rich. Their “NYC sized apartment” is probably bigger than many houses, and definitely b…

lol THIS GUY FUCKS, AMIRITE

Same on behalf of baked beans and toast, and I’m not even British!

I know Fuego is the trendy Taki but my heart belongs to Crunchy Fajita (or as they’re known in their home country, “Original”).

Either way, eat them with hummus and you’re in for quite the fiesta de sabor (I swear it’s good but yes it helps if you’re stoned).

I hear what you’re saying, but there are numerous ways to prevent pregnancy today before this would need to be an option.

This shit drives me nuts. Do people who say “get a better job!” not realize... someone still has to do the “worse” job? And maybe those people ALSO deserve things like, um, health care and a livable wage?

The American pro-life movement has been quietly attacking contraception for decades. Not one pro-life group in America supports birth control. Not a single one. They don’t advertise this because it’s wildly unpopular, but it’s part of their mission and pretty fucking obvious if you look at the laws they support…

Some crisis pregnancy centers actually do this — people with wanted pregnancies show up needing assistance with their pregnancy and thinking (reasonably so) that these pro-life centers will help them, only to be shooed away when it’s discovered they weren’t considering abortion. I’ve even heard stories of CPCs turning …

Maybe you’re not actually a dirty slut in your everyday life, but engaging with the part of your sexuality that allows for having your hair pulled during a blow job is a nice bit of role play that elevates sex from quotidian to somewhat enjoyable.

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The absolute best solution for dry, ashy, rough skin I’ve ever found was this stuff, which I discovered when I was…

I was on a flight as a kid and the landing gear got stuck. I kept hearing the sound of the gears over and over, until the pilot got on the loudspeaker and told us what was happening — the landing gear wasn’t coming down, it was probably stuck from ice or something. Then he said he was going to have to “jiggle the…

I had the opposite of this situation happen: I was flying by myself for the first time around age 16, maybe 15. I was in a bulkhead aisle seat right by the flight attendant jumpseats / service area, and there was a relatively large, older man in the middle next to me. The man starts chatting — a LOT — with the FAs,…