Wow I didn't see this reply. All arguments you make from now into the future are invalid to to intolerance and ignorance.

I work in the fashion industry. I work primarily with ladies and gay men. Only once in the years that I've been doing this has a gay person said anything about me being straight.

It's more that, even when you have other ways of describing someone, it usually goes to orientation for non-straight people. You could be the funny guy, tall guy, skinny, blonde, brown hair, but no. It usually lands on orientation.

Fair enough, but do they refer to you as a straight guy? Do they act like your gringoness defines the very fiber of your existence? Do they not like you in the same locker room just because you're gringo? I mean, you've never been more then polite, but who gives a fuck? You're a fucking gringo. I mean, we don't hate…

right, but as a straight white male, my gender and sexuality won't become who I am. However, plenty of non-straight people get labeled by their respective orientation first. "Do you know Jeff? No? Black gay guy that works at the store?" You will rarely here some described as "white straight guy/girl"

Real men don't want their suits, ties or leather to get ruined

real men don't want their suits, ties or leather to get ruined