Depends on where you work. When I used to be a nurse, it wasn’t that uncommon for nurses to get overwhelmed, frustrated, or just bone achingly sad when mourning a lost patient. I guess we were much more aware of how this all plays out, and in general folks just acted like freaking human beings about it, and moved on.…

I read that movie much differently. I saw it as an over the top explosion of big characters.

I love Mila Kunis, but damnit. Kate McKinnon fills me with disappointment and frustration over her anti trans crap. I can’t watch her.

My first thought was like many posters, that the ultimatum about never having sex should be unpacked as a big red flag. Asking to use brith control to prevent pregnancy is not a weird response.

I think those are some good points.

There are a lot of porn tags out there that lead into this kind of thing. It’s really weird to me, because I watch gay porn (being married to a dude) but I watch a bit of straight porn. I find the straight porn has weird categories that come up, like “anal pain” which seems all about coercing women into having painful…

As for binders? Try Underworks, http://www.underworks.com/cotton-concealer-chest-binder I had double DDs before I had top surgery, and it won’t completely flatten you, but it will flatten you enough, you might look like you have some serious muscle.

So how long until sex education, LGBT, and sexual assault crisis help get caught up in this draconian drag net?

If I could Amazon those, I’d totally buy them. Just cause.

Ru’s form of drag acts like there aren’t already cis women performers, or Drag King performers out there doing their thing.

I think that he doesn’t see what being transgender is, because for him femininity is a performance art. I just don’t think he fundamentally can see what we are because his window into gender is so specialized into performance of exaggerated performance of feminine stereotypes.

I think you are better off getting a short schoolie, than an ambulance. They come in diesel and gas engines, with some better than others, but they are way better campers. Ambulances have a lot of the interior space carved out for equipment, with some funky electrical you’d have to deal with. A schoolie is more like a…

I buy our office mom Starbucks all the time. She can’t say no, and always steps in. She just can’t help herself, but I don’t want to her ever feel like nobody notices how much she puts in.

That’s a great idea.

I have some trepidations because everytime they get publicity they get brigaded by /r/the_donald and their ilk.

There is also an abundance of very good transgender support communities. I have seen people really come through for each other there.

My biggest problem is I bought a new MacBook Pro which is amazing. It blows my old 4 year old iMac out of the water.

I’ll put #ustoo stickers and hashtags right up with those stupid blue tape lines/stickers blue lives matters jerks put on their cars.

I was talking about this today with a much younger transgender man, the only thing that makes us trans, is that we are trans. It says nothing about our politics, ethics, likes, or dislikes. He was sad he’d lost a friend that was also transgender because they were being an asshole. Being an asshole isn’t something…

We move a lot, and I’ve seen these coupon packs and offered deals. They never really amounted to much for me. A lot of these coupons and deals were for things I’d never buy, or to a store I would shop at but for things I could care less about spending my money on. I might be in the minority, but I think because we…