1000x. Straight guys have NO clue that you should not ask to have sex in a damn online chat. Also, I like The Walking Dead, but I don't want to screw everybody else who does. Is that so hard to understand?

There is nothing worse than the guy who desperately stares at you in an effort to make eye contact, and if you look back at him, immediately assumes "she looked at me! That means a one way ticket to pound town, whoohoo!" Eye contact doesn't count as flirting if she can't avoid your gaze, dudes!

I just don't get why this isn't more understood. There's this strange insistence that it MUST be one or the other. As if culture isn't a product of our hardwiring, and as if our hardwiring isn't affected by our culture.

100x this. As soon as they ask my vagina gets sucked up into my chest cavity. Get to know me as a fucking person before you ask to stick your penis in me pls

This is pretty much all my experiences on OKCupid, in a nutshell:

There was this guy today at the cafe, where we were the only two people in the room, and he kept on staring at me, while I was eating, doing homework, and using the phone. And as I was using Tinder, I saw his profile, it was quite racially charged and full of fetishization (think confederate flags, Yellow Fever,…

Is it basic sexism, or evolutionary psychology?

I'm assuming you meant "not honest" - and I agree! On a slightly related note, I was having a talk with a guy on OKC - who comes off as monogamous in his profile - and he says he's actually poly. He only lists himself as monogamous to draw in the ladies who would otherwise reject them and thinks that women who list…

A prude in the streets, a freak in the tweets.

As I'm getting older, monogamy is very unappealing to me. Not even just regarding sex, but the idea of being in a committed relationship with someone for the rest of my life sounds really unappealing. I didn't used to feel like that, and I've been mostly faithful in all my monogamous relationships (minus like one my…

It is work, but for someone who is polyamorous, it's a way to meet your need to be with more than one partner. It's not like divvying up chores and waxing before valentine's day so your husband wants to eat you out isn't work. Every relationship is work.

Does Involuntarily Abstinent count as an orientation?

The scene: Horrible abusive relationship. The inevitable morning after the all too familiar horrific night before. I am packing my bags. Unfortunately not for the first time, and not for the last.

We had been on a date and a half (the half date was he had asked for a ride home from something else, and then asked if we could just go to my place to watch a movie. I was too spineless to say no). He left shortly after to go to school out of state, and called me to tell me he had "received revelation" that we were…

I came back from the doctor and said I probably couldn't get pregnant without a lot of help - help I've decided I didn't want. He hugged me, said it was OK, and asked me to marry him. Right there, in the hallway, with a litter box not 2 feet away. I said no.

We were both 22 (he was maybe 23), and it was February, time for responses to grad school applications. We had been dating (the kind of dating you do in college) for about a year. He received his acceptance from a prestigious design school in the NE that morning, and evidently spent the day romanticizing/fantasizing…

My rejection was pretty uneventful. I think I was 23 or 24 so this was like 7 years ago. There was no ring; we were lying in bed one morning and he said, "we should get married this summer" and I was like, "nahhh, I don't feel like I'm ready to get married yet. If we get married before we finish school I'll feel like…

We had an horrid relationship, the last 2 years where whiteout sex We had already broken up, I came to my apartment to find him inside it, lucky me the guy I was having sex with was waiting for me at a part several blocks away, Called my best friend because I wasn't going to be alone with my psycho ex...

I was…

My brief story was an elderly woman came in to our store and ordered a burger.

@Kaylee Allers and the Scallop Mini Burgers -