Don’t feel bad. It’s the stupidest question ever. “Which is harder: doing a bad thing or having a bad thing done to you?”

My lovely boyfriend of FOUR YEARS decided it would be better to ghost me than be a man and tell me he wanted to see other people. He was supposed to come visit me and just didn’t show up. It’s been a little over a month since he disappeared and not a peep. No heads up he was no longer coming. No “hey things aren’t…

wait.

lolololol this is a joke, right

How about ghosters grow a fucking pair and just relay what the problem is or that you just don’t want to date anymore? After that initial explanation you don’t have to talk any fucking more but have some fucking decency you ass wipes.

What?? No, it is way harder to be ghosted than to do the ghosting. The ghoster is in control of the scenario; the ghostee is in the ghoster’s (metaphoric) hands, running around wondering what the hell they did wrong when really the fault is that the ghoster does not know how to communicate clearly with someone or take…

“I think when I joined Ballet Theater, there were people on the staff who did not want to see a brown person in the corps onstage,” Copeland, 32, told the New York Times last year

You know who does target men and women equally by the tens of thousands? The Assad regime.

It’s always evident. There just is a lot of things culturally that protect wealthy people from having to deal with people’s feelings about their privilege and the often accompanied cluelessness. I’ve had friends who were shocked that I won’t get an inheritance from my grandma, people who have lived on this earth for…

Yuup. I still remember the day when my history teacher asked my class (at my private boarding school) who considered themselves “Upper Middle Class.” Literally everyone raised their hand, and the teacher basically said “LOL no. If your parents can afford to send you to this school, you are well above Upper Middle…

Well if you have a statistical advantage, you’re going to exploit that. And given that in today’s cultural climate everyone is a fucking maximizer, everyone wants to have the perceived “best value”. But don’t tell me that you don’t know women who are looking to date a guy with all of his hair, 5’11 or taller, etc.

Right after I finally broke free of my father (who was sexually, physically, and emotionally abusing me) and was seeing a therapist courtesy of Victim Witness, she started telling me I was a sociopath.

be attractive but not intimidatingly so...my male ego is fragile, you whore.

The thing is, women aren’t stupid. I’m sure Greta knew this, and I’m sure she’s been inundated with how women should look her whole life, just like we all have. So if she was dressing that way, there probably was some sort of reason for it, you know? And rather than sit down and discuss possible reasons behind why she…

See also: Be attractive - but effortlessly attractive. It doesn't count if you look like you're trying.

I had a (female) therapist once tell me I should take more pride in my appearance when I leave the house. I could start by wearing better shoes and more flattering clothes.

it seemed that she was clean and presentable, but extremely old fashioned- honestly? i bet she was just hugely practical. i mean he calls her shoes ‘too practical.’ like is that a t h i n g

Yeah but let’s be real. People look for certain markers of attractiveness. Women are as superficial as men. Attractiveness is a subjective and dependent on your target social group. So someone who is looking for a meat head is not going to date a thin hipster in skinny jeans ( I’m not sure if people still wear this).…