Thanks for saying this.

So much better to be safe than sorry. And good of him to realize you were uncomfortable and just use his key instead of trying to convince you otherwise.

I get what you’re saying, but it’s a dick move to demand every victim react the same way. We all handle trauma differently and if someone feels that they will be safer/happier/heal faster by keeping it to themselves, that’s exactly what they should do.

Wowwwwwwww....that’s...vile. I’m speechless that someone would 1) think that is funny and 2) that it won’t get your ass totally beat if you tell it to others, especially strangers.

Yes, but there’s a difference between answering truthfully about your own life and ignoring everything about your friends. That could be true of any topic, not just kids. It’s rude to only talk about yourself and never ask about the things in someone else’s life, as it sounds like is happening to this letter-writer.

I’m jealous of you and toolazytologin, I want to hang out with Jezzies in real life, too!

Dude, don’t call it “exotic.” And definitely don’t ask, it’s rude and your curiosity is not more important than making someone feel like the “other.”

THANK YOU!! That part was especially infuriating. Like, of course he’s not winning elections because you have to enter as a goddamn candidate to win and he DOESN’T DO THAT.

Yes, but what is troubling is that they didn’t examine them. You don’t think that’s fishy?

Wow, she looks positively insane.

lol right because no one ever talks about that, none of us are aware of it, he didn’t have to testify about it in front of Congress, his wife wasn’t smeared for it during her own campaign...

Barbara rolled her eyes as if to say ‘not again.’ His security guard told me I shouldn’t have stood next to him for the photo.

I was literally just thinking that!

In addition to just #noblackfaceever, I think to really make her shit herself the scarer has to be black. Just like in order for me to be REALLY afraid of the dark, an entitled and intoxicated male stranger has to be lurking nearby.

Best comment I’ve read in a long time. Well done, friend.

Couldn’t agree more. Seriously, what the fuck was she thinking in light of what’s currently happening in regards to sexual harassment? Also, she could have shared this somewhere a little more private instead of making the whole damn country feel like they have to pipe up in some way.

lol wut? What about gropey Mr. Affleck or the literally millions of other attractive creeps? Anecdotally, I have been harassed by many good looking men and my rapist was a hottie I totally wanted to date until said rape.

Hear, hear!

Wow....wowowowowowow.

Dude, seriously just stop trying to police the conversation and listen. Take it to the abusers and tell them what to do, but don’t come in here and derail shit. It’s an unseemly look and it just makes us women feel like WE’RE TAKING FUCKING CRAZY PILLS BECAUSE THIS IS ALL SO OBVIOUS.