I MADE IT NICE! I need to cross-stitch this on a pillow.

I must admit he was good looking, but I was so terrified that someone just RAN into my home. To assist with your visualization, he wasn’t wearing any sort of uniform, as my go-to pet supply website used companies that only had independent contractors.

I don’t have an inherent problem with it, to be honest, nor an inherent judgment.

“ASS HUSBAND”?!

He is literally her boss right now. He is directing the film she is in. He can fire her. And, as we know from numerous past instances like Hitchcock and Tippi Hedren, a name director can absolutely have an actress blacklisted from all films if she pisses him off by rebuffing him. He could easily sink her career, and…

You may not want to present yourself as an example. It’s not having the effect you think.

I don’t know that it’s predatory, but I do question the maturity and intelligence of the older person if they only seem to be able to have relationships with people under 25.

You’re so sure that he actually leaves his “authoritativeness” in the bedroom, and not that he’s just learned to be savvy enough to otherwise conceal it?

Yea, it’s certainly ok, and not even on my concerns list - but I just went on a spree of rewatching my favorite Arronovsky films, and this does make me lose a smidgen of respect for him. I actually respect these kinds of relationships more when they’re just fuck buddies- it seems more honest as to what each partner is…

The eww part to me is that he was just 14 when he appeared on the talent show she was judging which is how they met. 33/23 eh? 14/24? That’s illegal.

yep, it’s a (gross) cliche for a reason

Well, that particular relationship is kind of gross because they first met when he was a barely pubescent 14 year old. I’d feel the same if the genders were reversed.

old limpy dicks

Not every choice is healthy, and every choice is shaped by being socialized in a patriarchal society.

The other day when I found out 23 year old Liam Payne had a baby with 33 year old Cheryl Cole my first reaction was repulsion. Then I had to self-examine why I thought that weird when I’d probably just go “eh” if their genders were reversed

Personally, I think the power imbalance is more disturbing than the age difference.

It is entitled. The idea that every choice you make should be celebrated just because you made it is ridiculous and dumb.

But can I judge you for misspelling “judgment”?

Such an entitled position. No one is required to “accept” your choices. You are allowed to make your choices and people are allowed to disagree with them. The only requirement is they don’t make laws preventing you from making those dumb choices.   

Fear that no one will read the second sentence of your posts.