::High Five::

Jesus Christ, I am out of the loop. Are you serious?? I’ve never seen these commercials.

I’ve worked with a lot of dancers (exotic) and even they have the right to say that they don’t want to give lap dances to certan men who make them feel uncomfortable or are known aggressors in the community.

This is like, the most perfect summary of this whole shit show. Thank you.

Thank you for this very good point.

It’s not illegal to ask to ask them to perform. And many of us are asked to do things we don’t like. But it’s also acceptable and not SJW-ish to consider the details of having to work with a man who is an outed racist and has admitted to sexual assualt and not caring about it. I feel terrible that they have to perform…

Humans are a suspicious people. You be you, though. <3

Whenever I encounter someone with this diagnosis I remind myself that THIS is what it looks like when someone has had to survive a horrible, invalidating, often times abusive childhood so duh, they may behave like a nightmare because that’s all they’ve ever known.

Ugh, you are such an awesome writer. I really hope you have some kind of blog or are at least writing a memoir because my god so many of us are living with these types of family dynamics and need a good writer to help us make sense of it all.

It’s a sad thing more people don’t understand addiciton becaues the US is going to be hit with a maelstorm of opiate addiction (that is, if it’s citizens are not already drowning from pill addiction on a frightening level).

Daaaaaaaaaaaamn that’s a lot of fucking hard work.

I am.

White, white horsesssssssssssss

You’re not blond, hott (with two “t”s) and you’re also not a rich white person?

Learning about emotional regulation is an absolute blessing even if you don’t have BPD. Lots of stuff online and on youtube from compassionate professonials that you could look up. It’s really fascinating stuff and frequently used even to help people deal with truama, loss, grief, anxiety and depression or with teens…

I was researching some BPD changes on youtube (lots has changed with the DSM 5 and many researchers have channels) and ran into some MRA tinted channels that discuss the dangers of the BPD WOMAN and I was so saddened by what I heard. It’s terrible to have people all lumped into one awful subjective experience.

You have a lovely way with words. Jealousssssssssssss.

LOL thank you I appreciate this!

Can you talk more about the lack of boundaries? That stood out to me in your comment and it sounds fascinating!

This truth right here; deerlady rules.