YES! I tried to find a GIF of Emperor Palpatine saying stuff about anger and hate, but I can’t so I’ll just toast you instead. Cheers, internet friend. Good riddance to bad rubbish.

Honestly, it sounds like you’re in my head. I felt the same way for the first bit. Then I found out he was a cheating lying fuckwad even while we were together, and I immediately blocked him on social media and deleted his contact information from my life (even though, unfortunately, his number is forever burned into…

TERRIBLE PERSONALITY?????? WHAT SHOW ARE 81 OF YOU PEOPLE WATCHING????? TERRY IS THE BEST!!!!!!!

Letting go is really hard. I usually feel better if I get into one of my hobbies or go exercise more, something distracting that produces endorphins. If you feel you would be ready to meet someone new then you are definitely making the right choice I think.

Yeah, nope. They pull that shit. I have to call my best friends like three times a day (each) to be like, remind me why I’m not talking to him? It’s been two weeks.

It’s not on you to reach out. It’s on him to take responsibility for his actions towards you. I don’t know why they do it, honestly. What do they gain from…

My son and I went to see Pitch Perfect 2 today. Is it wrong that I’m kind of happy that he has zero interest in movies with explosions, superheroes, or space themes?

You can get black out drunk on the weekdays, and be drunk at work (as long as you don’t drink at work) and still keep your job. The double standard for alcohol vs. pot is ridiculous.

I have a similar situation with a guy friend. Things are sexual but not very often, but we text and hang out anytime we can. I am not sure what to do because I am NOT ready to meet someone else, and I have very few friends or social support network. I feel like he’s someone I can rely on and he treats me well and is a…

I know it’s hard, but I hope the responses from me and others has convinced you to get out before he gets any more hooks in you.

Well, if she had kept them in the US he would have lost really important years with his own children he’d never get back — and if I understand visa restrictions, he would not have been able to travel to the US at all to visit his children and maybe that’s why the judge gave him custody?

Well, he had to leave the country due to his US visa being revoked. It seems she may have been behind that happening and it bit her in the ass. I don’t agree that she should have lost custody as a result and I feel for her not being a part of her children’s every day lives, but it’s a tough situation, as he cannot…

How did she lost years? She has visitation rights during the school year and the kids got the spend the summers with her. Just because she doesn’t have full custody doesn’t mean she’s been cut from their lives. Why is her relationship with her kids more important than his relationship with his kids? Being a woman…

Those kids should stay with their father. She is the one who started this whole thing by acting like a bitch (having his Visa revoked, thinking he would just leave and she could have the kids all to herself). I am positive that if she had been given custody those kids at the beginning they would never have seen their…

Oh, honey, you only THINK you know passive-aggressive.

I am in a really similar situation, but I got the bomb yesterday that shows the whole thing to be a total lie. We’ve been best friends for years, but, given my experience, if he’s stringing you along, you’re probably not the only one. Even if you get together and it seems great, it’s likely that the role of “friend…

Worse than a manual blinker I suppose.

What the fuck are “Stamps?"

Breathes and blinks without even trying hard.

Good on you. It is important to be clear of what your needs are and that he isn’t meeting them. All the best in regaining some peace of mind and autonomy, I will be cheering for you!

I haven’t matured to the point that these things don’t happen to me anymore, but at least now they are not a question of wasting years, merely months. One thing I would like to point out: Mindy Kaling has made it clear that she wants a serious relationship. Have you? I think this is key.