I agree with Midnight Wench. So many predators like keeping up the disguise of a well-respected man/woman.

yeah I guess so. to me it depends on how large a community is. if it's a small to medium community then reporting such a problem would be relatively easy, and just as easy to resolve. But with larger communities, espeically one with more than one million people.... I can see how that could be a problem.

Alternatively, the website could have set up a private communication system where the users report the offender back to fetlife, sorta like Facebook's reporting system. Only in this case fetlife could have hired investigators who could check into whenever the user is actually a offender or not. They then could turn…