Ok right? I’ve been in way smaller online groups with good dozen mods. But maybe she thought more mods would just create even more drama? Sounds like running a goddamn facebook group wasn’t worth having the whole neighborhood think she’s a racist. 

With that many members I would want a mod for every single one of those qualifiers for two reason: It gives people something to do and it would keep a lot of shit out of my inbox.

LOL I may or may not have worked on Glee and this is just spectacular.

Also, I’m not sure I’d call the wig-shitting threat a *micro*aggression. It seems pretty dang aggressive.

GIRL, FULL BODY CRINGE. You are the hero we need.

I understand what you mean about zoos being problematic, especially since they were started in an era of white supremacy/imperialism and haven’t always been great about giving animals good environments. But they do do a really important job in keeping species alive that we humans may otherwise have killed off into…

I saw him again in late April and was sick within days. He’s still fine, I’m guessing he’s asymptomatic. I was so upset with him, after a well deserved dressing down, we ended up breaking up.

Yeah I’m not sure how “husband having confidence issues” could possibly mesh well with “mindblowing sex with a coworker that he knows about”. Also sounds relatively overblown, with orgasms in the “20s”. This just reads like a baitey, 4chan level post to attract the anti-cuck police. Not saying that its fake, just that…

Thanks, y’all.  My uncle is dead because other people decided to be selfish and greedy.  You are the reasons we will have at least some lockdown measures for the rest of the year.  Everyone who ignores the rules extends the rules.  Go to hell.

Don’t glorify or give these shitheads attention. Some of us are trying to not die.

And I needed for someone to touch my body after having not even have received so much as a hug for over 6 weeks.... Most of my friends were quarantined with partners; they receive touch every single day and have a shoulder to cry on. I was happy for them, and also felt resentful for any judgment that could have come…

I find buying every last thing online time-consuming and stressful. But this? Do. Not. Want. 

I love the bodies in Victorian pornography! They’re so real, they look like people you could actually know, with bellies and pubic hair, and as you say, they always look so shameless and happy to be there. At the same time, the slow shutter speeds and soft focus also makes everyone so smooth and pretty.

Obligatory “Historian Coming to Ruin All Your Fun!” warning, but Victorians absolutely did not cover furniture legs because the wood was...giving them wood (sorry). Those that were covered were just to protect them, or the floor/rug it was sitting on, much like the furniture paws of today.

That being said, one of my…

Not to burst your bubble but it takes a few weeks to a month to reap the benefits of switching to a nutrient rich diet from a bodily processes standpoint. The mental benefits are fast and dont discount placebo as a boost but if you’re feeling sick dietary changes are likely not effective in that short turn. Dietary…

I still don’t understand why people still bother going to church.

With every job loss or sick family member notification I receive from an acquaintance who voted for Trump, I experience schadenfreude so powerful I’m afraid it might metastasize into something permanent, like glee, or apathy. 

I have been trying my hardest to avoid thinking about how competently Hillary would have handled this. She wouldn’t have been as comforting as Obama, but by God she would have gotten. shit. done. The problem is, people rarely recognize the natural consequences of their own beliefs and actions, even when it hits them…

This is what most of the big, organized Christian groups are doing (the ELCA, the Episcopal Church, American Baptist Churches USA, the National Baptist Convention, Presbyterian Church USA, etc.). Numerous state-level Episcopalian bishops flat-out ended in-person worship in the last couple weeks of March.

A member of my local assembly called me on the phone to check to see how I was doing. He let me know all in-person gatherings were cancelled, but made sure I knew how to access online services via Zoom ect. The main website has links to CDC guidelines. THIS is how you  treat people when you really care about them.