See also: DANCERS.

What a lovely story. You should maybe write her a letter and tell her. I’m serious.

But she says she said “next time”. Is that what you mean by deflecting? If someone says “next time”, I see that as clear as crystal!  After he *kept asking* she answered him!  And when she answered in the affirmative to his whole, “Second date” clarifying question? He IMMEDIATELY pivoted to, jokingly? time hopping to…

Mine is Forever.

YES. 

I wish I could star this a million times.

YESSSSS.

I wish you everything good in the New Year.

Wow thank you for opening my mind to this!

I kind of thought it was abuser playbook 101. Most abusers get off on the final abuse (often stated in a  public forum). Witholding,  Erasure. ETA:hit Publish too soon.

This sentence is incredible. I bow to you.

She’s an activist for lupus and transplant patients? Also has spoken about treatment for depression related to her lupus dx.  She definitely co-chaired the Lupus Research Alliance benefit this year.

I KNOW! I also really like his soundtrack for an underrated stylish thriller movie called Deceived with Goldie Hawn and the late John Heard.

Are you personally somehow getting therapy for support and managing the emotional reactions (not just family therapy with your child which I hope is also happening) and education on autism spectrum issues from a professional who specializes in children with autism and ideally KNOWS your child? I do not just mean…

dammit take your star

Also and I can’t believe more people aren’t talking about this. In his *good* apology- he does the most classic abuser move in the playbook. He REMEMBERS IT DIFFERENTLY but doesn’t give us access to HOW HE REMEMBERS IT. The biggest tell in the book. That’s how I know he’s dirty. It also is handy at reabusing the…

I am here for any reference to Sam Ervin at any time.

Also? I don’t see many people on here saying, at least one of the victims could have been/still is legitimately afraid he would stalk, rape, beat, even kill them. Because when you realize they could do THAT, you know they COULD do anything. Be capable of anything.  And I leave space that he MAY have done those things…

ALL THE STARS.

I WANT THIS. gimmethenamequickquickquick