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I'm sorry you're having a bad week :( and I hope that things start looking up soon. Now, I am just suggesting the following from a purely helpful standpoint, and encourage you to eat whatever you want and whatever makes you feel better - if you happen to like peanut butter (or whatever nut butter) and think you can

DREW DROEGE FOR LIFE everyone should watch ALL of these, they are the best EVER and I hate writing in all caps but I just love these so much.

maybe some foot stuff too

This line is straight up insulting. I really don't get why apparently no one can do plus size right. It's a huge market, that has the potential to make shitloads of money and garner tons of positive press. It's really maddening.

I kind of don't get why "flashy" is so negative. It seems like a compliment to me, black, white or otherwise.

Yeah, that line about family is just kind of cruel, right? I don't get it at all.

so basically the takeaway from "dear future husband" is, stanza by stanza:

"you'll change your mind"

I think it might depend on your age/the age of men you dated at the time of the kids conversation. I remember in my early 20's men were sometimes less enthused about kids. Also, guys in major metro areas - like nyc, LA, Chicago, Boston, etc - are sometimes less likely to want kids. Or, who knows - everyone is

This is great, Tracy. I love your reporting and perspective.

I kind of lost some interest in Scandal and the last 2 or 3 episodes are still sitting on my dvr...it just kind of feels like it went a little off the rails, and I am just so damn tired of watching Olivia be mad at Fitz in some room alone while he yells about how hard he loves her and VERMONT VERMONT VERMONT IM NOT

I feel conflicted when this happens with my dog. Like, eating vomit - definitely gross. But not having to messily clean it up with paper towels and instead just give it a Lysol swipe - not bad. I kind of feign a little 'oh no don't gross' for about a second, then I'm just relieved.

thanks again for sharing.. One of the things hat I remember reading was about the chances for lady cancer (maybe cervical or ovarian? I don't remember) increasing with a hysterectomy, but now that you mention it, I think the keeping of the ovaries mitigates that IIRC. I'm 30, i have never wanted children (I know, I

Thank you so much for sharing. I actually am similar to you in some ways, albeit not nearly as severe - I have always had long, heavy periods, going through an ob super plus in like 2 hours, I also have a small cervix and uterus, but thankfully the doctor who was inserting mirena stopped upon realized how small I was

my heart fully and truly goes out to you, mindymoo. I have helped a friend after a c-section and she was hurting badly for awhile, so I can't even imagine what you're going through. I have a milder case of polycystic ovary syndrome, and just the nature of where and how it hurts is just so crappy, and that's no where

my insides hurt thinking about that. All the drugs and love to you, my friend.

re: wedding makeup - Just remember that makeup that looks great in photos is heavier than makeup that looks great in real life. Here's the thing though - these are going to be your most treasured photos that you will have on display forever, so I do reccomend going more dramatic than you normally would. Not crazy,

I'm a Steeler fan, but am a native New Yorker, so I am acutely aware of that which you speak, and agree with you. The Jets lineup for 2015 is shaping up to be pretty damn solid, and if they got a proven QB, there's no doubt to me that they would be a huge competitor. I'm also of the camp that won't count Geno totally